NEW HELP

[NewDaddy89]

Hey,

 

I'm new to kink. I'm finding it hard to grasp when my girl is being bratty. Mainly in texts. And I feel like I'm failing my brat/little and not giving ger the guidance she needs.

Are they keywords i could use in a text for her to understand i want her to be bratty?

She's told me she hasn't given me full brattiness because she doesn't think I can handle it.

 

Any advice would be wonderfu

[xBabydollx]

Brats usually like a challenge. Bait her. Dare her to say/do whatever sassy thing again. Whenever she challenges u, don't cave and back down. If she does something and knows a certain punishment will happen, follow through with it. There isn't any renowned keywords to use, unless u both come up with one. u could also arrange more bratty play sessions in advanced. If u can't even tell when she is being bratty...then ask her to turn it up a notch. If u want to be blunt about it, u could say something like, "I would love to play with my bratty babygirl right now" as a Que, or something along those lines. I think it's best organically like teasing/egging her own, but whatever works for u. Discuss ur desires with her, otherwise u may never get what u want, and that's the truth.

[baby_k]

Being really bratty requires trust: trust that the other one can take it, trust that the other person actually enjoys it and doesn't feel insulted, trust that the response is also playful..... And trust is built over time.

 

So, whenever she is bratty, embrace it and learn to know her way of being bratty and what she enjoys with it and what sort of responses seem to work with her. Also afterwards tell her that you enjoyed the brattyness and it was fun, and she is more interesting/smarter/funnier/[add some positive thing why you like about it or why it is good quality] because of it.

 

Personally I go pretty low with brattyness before I know how someone responds to it. If I seem to get positive signals with it, I step on with it, specially if the other person tells me that they really enjoyed it. If the other person doesn't know how to respond some of my bratiness, I tune it down unless they have told me that they like it even it overwhelms them or so. Because it is about learning the other person and how to communicate with them, how to have private jokes as bratting with person A can be totally different than bratting with person B for the relationship, dynamic and likes are always different.