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I'm still new into this and I must tell you that the first months were difficult to me.

I came across Little Space and got curious because it felt so comforting and familiar. That wasn't at all what I felt at first when I found out I am one, though. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate it at all and learned that it's actually a nice thing. I was just stressed out because a lot was already going on and I just couldn't handle the new discovery at that moment.

 

That all changed the first and still only time I got into my Little Space. I just felt relaxed and relieved, even though I wasn't far into it. It wasn't on accident but also not forced. I have been feeling relaxed over the topic ever since.

 

I still am reluctant to really try to get into Little Space again, though. I of course feel the desire to buy a pacifier. It has been on my mind for a while and is the only thing I feel like is needed to make me feel small as I already have lots of stuffies and a soft blanket.

But I'm afraid of my family finding out. This is why I only allow myself to think and act little when I'm really stressed and only when I'm all alone.

 

I would really like to know how others went through the first months and how you got Little stuff secretly/or not secretly. Is there anyone who felt scared and or still is? Any advice on how I can make this situation less difficult on myself?

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i was 20 when i found out i was a little. i lived with my family and still do. ive only recently got my first pacifiers a few months ago and my first onesie just last week. i was and am horrified at the thought of my family finding out. i just keep my little stuff in my drawer and usually dont use any of it until its bed time when nobody will interrupt me.

 

maybe you could get some footie pajamas. i got some of those at first because theyre more easily available than legless onesies, more socially acceptable for adults to wear them, and they come in cute designs.  

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