Quiet affection

[Feisty_cute_angel]

Is it weird to not talk much but show a lot of physical endearment. Like for instance, just being around your special people and feeling calm or being physically clingy instead of verbal more than often.

I’m a little and i know most daddies like a little to be clingy, but i fear that i’ll struggle with that since i’m more shy and quiet about it. But i’ve very passionate about showing others that i care for them dearly and usually hug them a lot or practically glue myself to them for a minutes. Like its not like i can’t be clingy i guess its just mostly physical for me and its hard when i’m in a LDR but i’m still trying. I don’t want to cling to heavy all the time since i know there’s a time for all that so others might see me distant. Its not like i’m try to be distant its just that i have trust issues and can only trust a select few. This is hard cause i would like friends but i’m hard to understand in my opinion.

Anyway i just wanted to get that of my chest and sorry for ranting have a good day who ever reads this .

[Guest Chrisx]

Not weird, everybody has different traits that define them.

 

In my experience, I don't think people should have the expectation to be talking constantly.

Some people are just quiet, and you should absolutely be able to enjoy someones company, whether they have a lot to say or not. 

no reason to hold that against somebody. 

 

I had a rather quiet little long term and honestly that didn't bother either of us. Sometimes she'd be talkative and really energetic and other times she'd become really timid/withdrawn. 

I thought that was adorable though, there was a tone of voice that'd only show itself when she was like that. Her quietly saying something like "I love you Daddy".  

out of nowhere, melted my heart, every. single. time. I never wanted her to feel bad for that. 

 

Whether it's a need of your little, or just a fact about them..

I feel like any Daddy/Caregiver should be providing encouragement as well as love, the sense of security they need.

Especially when we can see that they're having trouble with something.

 

I've seen the clingy thing go both ways though, some people practically need someone to cling to them, and others act like that's the plague. 

It depends heavily on who the two people involved are, as with most things.

 

For LDR, It's a little complicated and I'm sure has rather high failure rate, but that usually boils down to the fact that someone got into something, knowing that they are incapable of valuing a LDR equally to a standard one.

It's a trust thing, if the two people are really serious about each other there's no reason to assume they won't put in the work to get there.

 

I think you'll do great, just don't be afraid to struggle a bit on a new venture because you never know, you might spend a few weeks outside your comfort zone to find 30 years of success.

Then look back and be glad that even though you were afraid, and it was scary, you did it, and you made it. 

Nobody gets to where they want to be without a little trial and error. 

Edited September 21, 2019 by Chrisx