Long distance punishments

[Vaar'ika]

I'm in a long distance relationship, what are some possible punishments? The only thing I can think of is to not mail a gift that month. But that's kind of extreme. Ideas?

[SmolAetherr]

me and my little are in a fairly new relationship we have been talking for a while so we know eachother really well and these are punishments we have agreed on for now, the difference for us is punishments are designed to correct behavior not intended to be fun or pleasent usually designed for when my little forgets to drink water or stays up too late

 

but then there are the "funishments" these are fun/sexual for both of us desgned to be used when i catch her swearing or ignoring her daddy or failing to refer to me as daddy/sir

 

now that the context is out of the way

 

Acceptable punishments:

• No sweets for a period of time of daddy’s choosing

• Lines 

• early bedtime

• No gaming

• No social media/grounding

Funishments:

• Spanks

• Biting

• Seductive whispering ( on mic ofc)

•  Edging/orgasm play

• Dressing with an outfit of daddy’s choice and sending him a picture of it

• Dirty talk but no touching

 

 

 

 

 

remember no list of punishments will ever be the same and it always needs to be either agreed to or written by your little, she knows herself the best and it allows her a level of influence over her limits

Edited September 15, 2019 by Aetherr

[Vaar'ika]

What do you mean by "Lines"

[SmolAetherr]

take a piece of paper and a pen/pencil and write a short sentance down over and over, its boring and repetative

Edited September 16, 2019 by Aetherr

[Vaar'ika]

Ah. 

[MarsyBars]

Here's a few I've used, and had my cg's use for me!

 

• No games for the day.
• Lines/Rainbow lines. (Rainbows lines require using a different color when writing the lines, honestly was my least favorite ever.)
• Corner time, which was usually done on video chat. 
• No coffee for the day. 
• Extra chores for the day.

Hopefully these help, I myself am in college so it was always hard for a cg to do many time-consuming punishments for me which is why corner time really worked well. I would never recommend really taking away anything i.e stuffies, time with you, etc. Because that can really upset someone by taking away their comfort. Hope this helps!

[Vaar'ika]

Thanks!

[MysticSand]

I'm in a long distance relationship, what are some possible punishments? The only thing I can think of is to not mail a gift that month. But that's kind of extreme. Ideas?

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Am I reading this right that you mail gifts monthly?

 

If I remember correctly, you're new to DDLG and the relationship? It's a bit striking that with things being so new, that you've agreed to send a monthly gift. If I understood your post incorrectly, ignore this. If I'm not.... ABORT ABORT ABORT!!!!!

 

Not to judge your decisions or relationship, but please please please be careful. I see that you're 18 which makes me just worry. (I was in youth development for a minute and I get nervous for random internet teens - not being a creeper.  )

 

Okay so aside from all the unsolicited elderly words of wisdom, I would suggest gifts of any type be used as a reward. Rather than taking away something as a punishment. Setting up a monthly gift mailing just sets up expectations that could be dangerous. Personally, I use consequences that helps my Little better himself. For example, when he swears while gaming, he has to write a reflection on why he did it, what he was feeling in the moment, and how he can better express frustrations. (FYI, he requested a consequence set up for when he swore while gaming, so it's not something that I personally found worthy of consequence.)

[Vaar'ika]

I'm not sending gifts yet. Don't worry. That's something I plan on doing if things start going well.

[Barney048]

I'd like to weigh in here and warn new Caregivers that taking away your attention and care is in no way an appropriate punishment, it's just emotional abusse ... The reason i point that out is cause I've seen it happen often.