DDs CGs and Littles w PTSD

[DaddyJsGirl]

hello everyone! I am a little and a dd/lg relationship for almost 15 years now. my DD, was in the Army for 10 years and went through four war tours. he currently suffers from PTSD, although he is getting help, there are days that are tougher than others. Being a little, it is the most difficult for me when he is distant. And as much as I try to do what I can to help him, I know that sometimes Daddy just needs to be left alone. As I said, this is extremely difficult for me due to the amount of attention I require as a little. I was just wondering if any one in a similar relationship may be going through the same thing or something like it. Thanks! Loves & cuddles

[Daddys__kitten]

Im so sorry to hear that, it must be so hard for you ♡♡♡

My daddys ex, who is the mother of his youngest, suffers from PTSD and panic attacks due to a very traumatic childhood. I know that deep down she is a sweet girl that is trying the best she can, but because of these conditions she is always in some kind of panicmode and startes the biggest fights with daddy (like last week when he got a letter from her lawyer telling him that she wanted full custody of the kid). He gets so stressed out by the constant fighting that he totally shuts down. And then I have to pick him up and make him feel better.

I know that I'm no where near your situation, but I can totally relate to the feeling of needing the attention and not being able to get it.

[SpinSpinSugar]

I feel you. I managed to get triggered in my first play session with Himself, which then triggered him. He's currently in brain-recovery mode, but I'm kicking myself because I've got a feeling he's going to decide it's not worth playing with me Gutted as I am rather fond of him, but I have the same worries - if he withdraws whenever things go awry, what happens when I need him to be Daddy, and he can't? Grim.

 

I don't have any advice; I can merely offer commiserations.

[DaddyJsGirl]

Thank you so much for your responses. Even if it isn't advice it is definitely insight.