Daddy won’t stop calling me names like master...

[Babygirl9006]

Daddy is being mean and making me feel big and I don’t like it... she’s being mean to me and I don’t like it I like when she calls me Babygirl not Daddy and Master...

[Bally]

This is def something you need to talk to them about. You need to talk about your feelings and share how you feel.

[Babygirl9006]

I did and she won’t stop... and now I think she was just trying to get me out of little space so she could be sexual without me being uncomfortable which just made it worse... and I’m scared... it’s not like she can do anything because she’s not with me but I stopped responding entirely because idk what to do

[Bally]

I think at that point you really need to break it off. thats toxic

[kitten!!]

yeah, if she is continuing it even though you have expressed to her that it makes you sad and uncomfortable, that is toxic and you need to 100% break it off

[Little kaiya]

There seems to be a lot of the story missing to be able to give useful advice. Why is your partner calling you more dominant names if you are the little and they are the dominant? Are you both switches? Is this something that has happened before or is it new? Is this a new relationship where maybe they don't realize or a longer term relationship where they know better? Why would they do something you don't like to try to get you to be sexual, it seems very counterintuitive. If they aren't with you how did they continue when you told them to stop? I'm just very confused with your story.

 

If you are scared of your partner that is a huge red flag. It seems like the two of you need to have a very serious adult discussion. If they aren't respecting your boundaries I for one certainly would never tolerate that in my partner. You obviously can't make them call you pet names you like if they aren't ok using them but on the other hand they certainly shouldn't be using ones you dislike.

 

My suggestion would be to step outside of the DDlg dynamic until you both can clearly communicate your positions and boundaries.

 

Little kaiya