Feeling a bit lost

[LBaba]

So last night my little declared that she didnt want to be in a CareGiver Little relationship anymore and moments after she completely broke up with me. I do not know what to do and I do not know how to Express my emotions anymore. I feel very anxious and depressed now that she's gone. I do have depression and anxiety among other mental illnesses. I just need some advice. We have been together for nearly 3 1/2 years and I've given her everything she's every wanted stuffies, love, care, attention, a shoulder to cry on and so much more. And even when she made mistakes no matter how bad they were I forgave her without a second thought because she meant so much to me and no matter what she does or could do, there is nothing in this world that would make me despise and/or hate her. But after the break up she then told me about how she would be returning every... even the stuffies that we had adopted together... that broke my heart so much that I immediately started to bawl. I just need some advice from anyone I really need someone to help me..

[Sleepless]

It’s scary how you can be with somebody for so long, then seemingly suddenly they decide to leave. It hurts so much. Time and distance from that person are the only things that helped make the feelings go away for me.

[Guest littlebabyslittlespace]

Oh bless you I'm so sorry. My daddy broke up with me when I was in hospital, luckily we talked things over and gave it another chance. It's the most soul crushing feeling. I'm so sorry you're going through this, I'm here if you need to talk, I hope you'll be okay

[Guest MonsterDaddy]

Thats gotta be hard... I think many of us have been in your shoes. My first piece of advice is to try your best not to internalize her decision. If you truly believe you were good for her and to her, then her decision to leave had everything to do with her and not you. That doesnt make her a bad person, it only shows us that people need different things at different stages of life.

 

Your energy is likely being spent on anxiety and depression. I think it would be a good idea to pour some of that energy into something productive, whatever that may be for you. Itll do no good to wallow in your own misery, though its sure easier said than done to pull yourself out. Sometimes a favorite song can perk me up. Maybe thatll help you too. Whatever it is that takes you from suffering to glowing, i hope you find it.