Not-so-young-little (over 30, represent)

[Storm]

God yes! I am so glad to know there is an over 30 and 40 people on this forum. I am new to this forum and when I was looking around and kept seeing mostly 18 to 25 yrs posting I had my doubts about this forum. But I am glad I do see that there are people how are around my age here and in the lifestyle. I guess my doubts are of being able to hopefully find a little/pet here do to me being my age and mostly 18 to 25 yr olds looking for people in their age range. Anywho..glad to know and see this post...makes me feel more comfortable being here!

[Cherry41]

As someone who is 40....close to 41...I love this thread too.

 

I haven't seen any of the actual kids of 14 and 15 on tumblr....just because I don't go on there much...I'm not arguing with anyone...I am sure they are there...but I have seen some of that on some other sites. I agree with everyone else on that...no minors should be in any kind of BDSM...or any other adult...relationship...or posting anything even remotely sexual online...and "DDlg" the way of being has nothing to do with actual little girls. It's for consenting adults only. 

 

But even on here...a site that does a great job of making that clear....I was only meeting people aged 19-25 for a while. They were all cool, but I felt more like their aunt or their mother than a fellow "girl." 

 

I imagine some of the girls you see presenting themselves as "lg" and presenting extensive wish lists to get men to buy them stuff have "Daddy" in the DDlg definition of the word confused a little bit with "Sugar Daddy." And...to my understanding...a "Sugar Daddy" isn't really a caretaker in that the relationship isn't that deep emotionally. It seems like they become casual friends at best but it's almost like a business arrangement between a man and a woman he finds attractive. He pays her basic living expenses....she accompanies him to his business functions for his job. He provides a luxury...say jewelry...she goes on this trip with him...and on and on. Of course, these relationships usually involve sex, but that's "unspoken" to avoid it being technically prostitution. (I don't judge, but that's illegal in a lot of places and people don't want to get in trouble.) 

[Guest Shinlenn]

Hi

I'm 37 and I'm sooo glad I'm not the only older little out there. I listen to chats about doing homework or college classes or assignment and think God I'm too old to be here. I feel happier now that there are little/middles around my age helping kids with their homework and not doing it.

I have nobody in my life who understands my little side and people find it weird if I go to got a stuffie for myself. Like last week I got the cutes Mary poppins stuffie in Disney and when I told people they just laughed shook their heads and asked how old are you?

Any ways I'm happy I came upon this tread and look forward to more stories

[SpinSpinSugar]

Just picked up Coraline again on Apple TV, forgotten how much I loved that film, but son found it too freaky. Had to have a convo about how just because something looks like a cartoon, it doesn't mean it's for kids (an issue the film had on release as it seems a lot of parents who had no idea who Neil Gaiman was thought it was like a Disney film - lolNOPE).  This film appeals to my inner Wednesday Addams so I'm pleased and I'll be prancing around saying the Twitchy-Witchy rhyme for a while.

 

We had our Yul yesterday which was stressful, but we unwound by getting Star Wars Battlefront and son and I are playing, which is ace.  Son has always appreciated the fact I'm never really an 'adult'. I still get the things done I have to do - bills need paying, dishes need washing up and I will make him clean his room, much to his annoyance. But at the same time we do silly stuff quite often, and always have. A part of me will always be young. 

[LilJenn]

I'll be 35 years young next month and I honestly feel better than ever - about myself, where my life is heading, etc. My overall confidence is through the roof. I am far more comfortable with my body and my little side than I ever was in my twenties. I still rock the hot pink press-on fingernails, sport my Hello Kitty tattoos, and carry a tiny stuffed Dumbo in my purse. Daddy (my husband) is 51, and we've been together for 12 years. He is always so tender towards my little side. I'll never forget when we first moved in together, I was 24. I had a head cold and stayed home from work. Daddy came home from work with a surprise for me. He had stopped at a local bakery on the way home and picked me up a huge gingerbread woman. I love that I can be so adult all day long, but then at night throw my hair in pigtails, wear my Rainbow Dash hat, and sip wine from a brightly painted glass. I love that I can run a household, work two jobs from home, take care of kids, pets, and everything else but still curl up in Daddy's arms at night and talk giddy and he loves it. 

And while we don't come out and call each other Daddy and princess and discuss the relationship dynamic we share with others, my mom totally gets it. She took my son to McD's not long ago, because there was some sort of wireless Pokemon download. While they were there she picked him up one of the Pokemon Happy Meal toys and brought me back one of the tiny holiday Build-a-Bear stuffies. She buys me rainbow fuzzy socks for my Christmas stocking every year. When I was 26, she bought me an Easy Bake Oven LOL At least Daddy isn't the only one who appreciates my little.

[Mind-rider]

I'm 36 and very new to this little thing. I'm just now exploring it after feeling so repressed in a terrible marriage for many many years. Needless to say I think it may never "happen" for me considering I'm so much older. Not sure there are any daddies out there willing to take on a little of my maturity level but I'll hold out hope. In the mean time, I'm going to continue to paint and color and wear pigtails and bows and knee socks in my house alone and enjoy being comfortable in my own skin. I can relate to those of you who are feeling more confident than ever. These are the best years of my life as far as that goes. Some day I might even feel comfortable letting my close friends in on this part of my life. I've recently been through a tough heart break and am trying to rise out of the ashes and be stronger and better. But I'm finding myself fighting off hibernating and isolating myself. Would love to develop some friendships with like minded ladies who I can relate to. Feel free to add me as friend. I'm a very good pen pal and would love to engage in intelligent conversations. It's my drug!

[OlderLittle]

41 here. Ive posted in here a few times already. I definitely think we need a means to gather and discuss topics, our experiences, support each other and give each other sound advice. I sent messages to those of you who are friends about the possibility of starting a group and to those that are not friends I sent friend requests so I can send you the message too. It will be a kik group but I'm gathering through messages to avoid the wrong element in the group as this will only be for older littles and later down the line we can decide if we wish to also add older Daddies/Mommies or make a different mixed group for that. I am so excited about doing this please let me know if you're interested.

[SKDiamond]

I made a kik group for 30+... if you'd like to join, PM cdn_qt "like fine wine"

 

It is an adult group with sometimes BDSM/sexual conversation... its Dom heavy right now, definitely would love more fellow babygirls!

[Guest itsbabygirlbean]

I'm 31, but will be 32 in a few weeks. I understand that I have to do adult things like work and pay bills. But at my core, I'm such a Little Girl. Being Little is my happy place where I can let go. I have also done so much growing on an emotional level since I found the lifestyle (3 years).

 

A few close friends know that I'm a Little. I will literally squeal over anything cute. They are used to it.

 

[A part of me struggled with putting my bio age in this post. My Little wanted to put her age down. Haha]

[1287]

Daddy spent Christmas with my teenage boys and I. Wish I knew about this life years ago. Everything just feels right. Also got a great new stuffie!

[sassy]

Oh my goodness!  Super excited to see other littles who passed 30 quite a while back!  I am 41 and have 17 & 13 yr old sons.  Being little was a lot easier to get by with when they were little too!  I would love to make friends with littles closer to my own chronological age - nothing against the young ones, but having some friends in the same stage of life would be awesome.  Thank you so much for chiming in and making me feel like maybe I really do belong on this forum! <3

[Guest Lilmzangel]

Gotta just say I love this thread and all of you! I was beginning to wonder why all the lils seem to be so young ... I mean I'm not 30 yet but it's coming right around the corner and I really want to friend some that are either around my age or older. Just feel a little uncomfortable with younger people- it's a maturity and mentality thing ... Thank you for all of your posts!!!!

[OccasionalNinja]

40 here (giggles) brand new little and still learning with my Daddy.

[Aurorah]

I just turned 30 in November. I just realized that I think I want my boyfriend to be my Daddy, like, today!! That being said, I'm into a lot of kid stuff but not so much the hello kitty type kid stuff so as far as my life goes, I think I'll be able to transition fairly easily, as long as he's into it... However, I know absolutely no-one who practices anything in the least bit kinky (at least no-one who talks about it), and all my friends and family have been asking me when we're getting narried, having kids, etc. for the last YEAR and I'm here like, "I just found my inner child and accepted what she wants and needs in life, like, yesterday!!" Soooo no child-bearing struggles right now, but what if?? And, even worse, what if not?? Would love to hear from anyone about anything just cuz it's not so lonely even if the struggles are different... BTW- writing this in bed with my sleeping love next to me and full glass of wine on the night stand lol

[Guest Lilmzangel]

I just turned 30 in November. I just realized that I think I want my boyfriend to be my Daddy, like, today!! That being said, I'm into a lot of kid stuff but not so much the hello kitty type kid stuff so as far as my life goes, I think I'll be able to transition fairly easily, as long as he's into it... However, I know absolutely no-one who practices anything in the least bit kinky (at least no-one who talks about it), and all my friends and family have been asking me when we're getting narried, having kids, etc. for the last YEAR and I'm here like, "I just found my inner child and accepted what she wants and needs in life, like, yesterday!!" Soooo no child-bearing struggles right now, but what if?? And, even worse, what if not?? Would love to hear from anyone about anything just cuz it's not so lonely even if the struggles are different... BTW- writing this in bed with my sleeping love next to me and full glass of wine on the night stand lol

[Guest Lilmzangel]

Yay for wine!!!! *giggles!!! Congrats on your new daddy!! I completely get and relate to you- all my friends have kids and I've been wondering what that will mean for me when the time comes ... One day ... I think it could be fun though, just gives me an excuse to do fun things all the time if/when I'm a mommy!! =)

[DaddysLilVixen]

I'm 35, have a 12 year old son and yes, the struggle is real. I'm actually struggling a bit with my age and being a little. Not because I don't feel I like a little, I do! Very much! But I ask myself... Am I too old? But I remind myself I'm not and this is who you am.

 

Yes,the struggle is real.

[lilfunlove]

my bio age is 42, and i'm in my first dd/lg relationship. i love it, but glad to know there are other littles in my age group. Hoping to make some little friends in bio age range 

[MistersKitten]

Hello! So, I'm not quite in the same place biological agewise, but lifewise. Daddy and I married when we were 18, he spent 6 years in the military where we had to adult completely on our own, dealt with infertility before having two kids, one of which is on the autism spectrum, then moved to Alaska from Virgina again on our own, and are about to move from Alaska to Massachusetts, still away from any support system. So I relate better with the 30+ crown than I do with others who are in their mid-late twenties. I hope you guys don't mind if I join you in here. I've been in a few other littles groups, looked for littles in Youtube, etc, and the problem I always find is a lack of maturity, which is what I'm looking for in friends. Obviously being a little means you are childlike in your heart, but there is just this level of emotional maturity that comes with having lived life... I don't know if that makes sense. A lot of the littles I see have just entered adulthood, have just started college, and just very obviously are young, I guess. It makes me feel a century older, and I just have nothing in common with them. Blech. This is all coming out wrong, but I hope you all get what I mean. <3 <3

[Liams_little_lizzy]

Hello! So, I'm not quite in the same place biological agewise, but lifewise. Daddy and I married when we were 18, he spent 6 years in the military where we had to adult completely on our own, dealt with infertility before having two kids, one of which is on the autism spectrum, then moved to Alaska from Virgina again on our own, and are about to move from Alaska to Massachusetts, still away from any support system. So I relate better with the 30+ crown than I do with others who are in their mid-late twenties. I hope you guys don't mind if I join you in here. I've been in a few other littles groups, looked for littles in Youtube, etc, and the problem I always find is a lack of maturity, which is what I'm looking for in friends. Obviously being a little means you are childlike in your heart, but there is just this level of emotional maturity that comes with having lived life... I don't know if that makes sense. A lot of the littles I see have just entered adulthood, have just started college, and just very obviously are young, I guess. It makes me feel a century older, and I just have nothing in common with them. Blech. This is all coming out wrong, but I hope you all get what I mean. <3 <3

I absolutely get what you are saying, by 26 in was already on my second marriage (first one almost killed me) and trying to "adult" as hard as I could with my husband. Turns out we had very different ideas on who was in charge. I wanted nothing more than to be a housewife and mother, he wanted to be the rebellious teenage boy who played video games and slept around. One would think that situation would be perfect (as I had to be the dominant one) it wasn't. Through much pain and regret and sorrow I only wanted for my husband to cherish me as much as I worshipped him and it all took a turn a few years ago when he started a family with a co-worker (accidentally?) since then I have found a man who nurtures my soul, feeds my little with goodness and treats means I have so long needed.

[MJequalslove]

Hi,

I am newly 30. I have tons of adult responsibility includin a professional job and two babes (preschooler and new toddler. My oldest has special needs. My family is seriously cray cray and I'm always having to mediate for them (despite my best efforts to boundary set it is what it is and it's easier said than done. My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We've experimented in the past with various bdsm styles but ddlg seems to fit for both of us. We've recently started making it a more ds dynamic but it's hard with all the adult responsibility. We both work 50+ hours a week.

[Guest Elencha]

Wow. I have to echo the joy of finding this place. I never even knew DD/lg was a thing until maybe three days ago. I thought I just had unresolved Electra issues. I'll be 40 in March and I've never hid my little,(if you will), side much except sexually. I have more or less always demanded that people accept me or don't as they please and get out of my face if they have a problem with footie pajamas and princess movies.

[KeepUSafe]

This is a great thread. ☺

I enjoyed reading it.

[New_littleariel]

Hi, I'm new to the DD/lg lifestyle and my daddy (my husband) loves it. My favorite thing has to be my paci and the cuddling that daddy and I do. We are trying new things everyday and I would love some advice/feedback on how to get more comfortable with this but so far so good. I love being his baby girl.

[Daddy's Snowflake]

My people! *group hug* I'm 36... I think...anyone else every forget and have to do the math?

 

1st off. This thread is hilarious.

 

2nd. Oh my gourd I feel your pain. I'm waiting for daddy to call me to put me to sleep cause my 5yr old and my 8 yr old stole both my Stuffies!

 

I was out with his mom and she commented on how cute my ruffled socks and flat shoes were then said it was suprizing her son went for "that little girl look".

 

I have a coffee mug Daddy painted foe me at one of those paint your own pottery places that says "Daddy's forever girl". Daddy is worried at some point while my father is visiting he will see it. Lol

 

I LOVE striped socks, bows in my hair, ruffled anything. We don't do as much age play stuff, my little space with Daddy is very sexual or emotional needs. But I still get to play with my kids so maybe that satisfies that need?

 

One word. LEGOS

 

I wish I had a friend in the real world who understood. But I'm glad I found you kids. Thanks for understanding. Totally not tearing up...