Not-so-young-little (over 30, represent)

[bbybe11]

I don't call Daddy "Daddy" in front of our kids or other people. I call him by his given name. Our kids don't call him Daddy so it would seem out of place. His bio kids call him Dad and my bio kids call him papa. When no one is around or when I can say it without being heard or over text, I call him Daddy.

[1287]

I'm a brand new babygirl at 46. While trying to learn about this life (Daddy says I've always been a little but didn't know it) all I see are very young girls. Was afraid I didn't belong. Google found me this site so I thought I'd try it out.

[Cherry41]

As a 40yo lg i relate to this thread. Anyone on it, please add me. Id love to be friends.

[Guest babygryl78]

36 here my daddy is 53.

Needed other Littles to talk to glad to know that other women my age are considered lurks as well. Looking thru this site I wad starting to get worried. I am in a long distance relationship with my daddy. We see each other 2 or 3 weekends or if the month due to some family things that brought me 400 miles away from him.

It's hard but I love my daddy and want the best for him. We both know it won't be long and I will be back up there with him but LDR are exciting as well. Anyone else in one

[1287]

Accidentally sent a text to my 23 year old son starting with"Hi Daddy" luckily I'm a Nerdy, toy collecting, comic con kinda mom and my kids just expect weird things from me. They think nothing of me sleeping in Yoshi pajamas and thigh high stripey socks

[Anjelle]

Accidentally sent a text to my 23 year old son starting with"Hi Daddy"

This made me Lol. I hope the rest of the message was more offspring-friendly!

[1287]

This made me Lol. I hope the rest of the message was more offspring-friendly!

[1287]

Yes thank goodness no pictures!

[Cherry41]

I try to keep texting to friends who would be understanding and use Facebook and phone calls for everyone else...though I do have a couple relatives who wouldn't understand if I told them not to text...so there are a couple contacts I have to watch out for  

[Guest DaddysLolita]

All of this made me lol. I'm 29 and my Daddy is 34. Neither one of us have kids but my nephews are very inquisitive. They're 6 and 8. I get a lot of "You color tooooo?!" and "You went to build a bear again?!"

 

My mom has made comments but I think she just laughs it off as me being silly. Me - wearing overalls and tights with bear faces on the knees and purple shoes. My mom - laughing at me and saying "I think my daughter is going back in life, thank God I'm young again!

 

*Dies*

[daddyslittlefrenchprincess]

I'm 43 (used to be daddyslittlefrenchprincess but changed my name on here). I still love that there are other "older" littles on here to talk to

[Bowtiedupprincess]

Omg! Thank you for this post! I was beginning to feel insecure on tumblr because of all the super young littles who are actual little girls IMO, 14 and 15 year olds! I came across this site and decided to give it a shot hoping to meet some other littles who fall in my age group, I'm 37 btw. I'm so thankful I did

[Bowtiedupprincess]

Minors aren't even supposed to be in any form of a BDSM relationship, which is a big thing on Tumblr that bothers me because it's so common. Kids like to jump on any new bandwagon that makes them feel special, unique but is also inclusive.

 

Most of our members here, including me, are pretty young (18-25) but we've got a good deal of littles and Bigs who are well over 30. They give some great advice too, coming from life experience and all. So I really hope you enjoy your stay here and can make some friends through this thread. I kind of feel like there's another 30+ thread in here with more replies, but I could be wrong.

Not only jumping on the bandwagon but some of them I noticed have wish lists on their home page! I think they're using this lifestyle to get daddies to buy them things, they have no idea what they're getting themselves into nor do they realize what kind of trouble or predators they may come across

Thank you so much, I already feel so welcome here, it gives me the warm and fuzzies

[HoneybeePrincess]

Hello Babygirl ladies, I'm glad to know that there are quite a few of us on this site. I'm 40 next week. I don't have kids or the embarrassing situations some of you have encountered but I know where you're coming from. Thanks for starting this thread SpinSpinSugar.

[tinykitty]

I'm 42,was starting to think maybe everyone was 18 to 22. I wasn't sure if i wasn't relating to the threads since of my legal age, or if it's because i've no experience in anything everyone else has so a lot just doesn't make sense or feel like something I can grasp, or because i can't figure out what age I even feel.

[Guest Jennyanydots]

Yyyyaaaaaay! I'm 31, but so glad there are people on here who aren't 19!!! (Including the men for crying out loud!) I don't mean to diss (much) but I feel like a lot of teenagers see this as a game to play - a way to avoid responsibility and to play older men/women. Older people do it too, but in my experience it seems the younger ones are more prone to it. It's fine, in my opinion, to explore things but it's wrong to exploit... Anyway I'm glad there are some older-than-19 littles on here and I think it will be a great thing to exchange info with people who have fully adult sides as well (kids, jobs, the works). Personally I don't have a "little" side apart from my adult side; I simply never stopped liking pretty frilly girly childish things, so I have an advantage when kids come around

[SpinSpinSugar]

Hello older little types. Xmess is coming and I'm doing ALL THE THINGS. One of the perks of having children is I can bling up on the Xmas stuff and no one thinks it's weird. I was a bit of a scrooge last year but this year I'm doing All the Christmas Lights - son is thrilled.  So am I actually! I'm going to start baking this weekend, I hope I can manage to do it justice as it's been a while since I've been able to bake the Xmas cookies, but I'm looking forward to it.  I know a lot of people my age humbug so hard during the holidays - they get overstressed trying to live up to 'expectations' and buying presents properly but this is why the internet was invented.  

 

How are you holiday preparations going for your family or yourselves? Are you managing to keep your squees to manageable levels or are people looking at you strangely at how excited you are about candy canes? 

[Guest Jennyanydots]

Meh, I'm a scrooge, myself lol. But my little boy had an excellent idea for this year - we are having a "halloween christmas" (his words, not mine). So we've made all sorts of insects and eyeballs in Xmass colors and glitter to put on the tree. I only give a few gifts because I don't like to give people things they don't need - especially since there are a number of hoarders on my list and besides, I don't want my kid to get spoiled. I prefer to give food-items like snack mixes and baked goods. 

 

If you're going to be doing a lot of baking this year, I love to make edible glitter. You can buy coarse sugar (like Sugar In The Raw) and add food dye to it, then line a cookie sheet with parchment paper, spread the glitter on the parchment, and bake it in the oven at 350F for 8-10 minutes. I've heard you can buy edible luster dust to add to it, but I have no idea where to get this. . .It's super shiny sprinkles for your cookies and other stuff!

 

One of the things I like to do is to buy those Libby's pumpkin bread mixes - it makes two big loafs. I don't use the drizzle they include. I mix powdered sugar and water until it's a little thinner than toothpaste, divide it in two, mix two colors of food dye (orange and white for halloween, red and green for christmas, blue and white for hanukah etc etc) then put it in zip lock baggies and cut a tiny hole in one corner of the bag. I use this to drizzle on the frosting, one color, then the other, then the first one again - because I like the frosting. You can sprinkle on some edible glitter or sprinkles as well. It looks super adorable, very easy and soooo yummy. You could do banana bread the same way. . .I have a recipe somewhere, if I can find it I will post it, I usually just do it by sight now :/

[OlderLittle]

I'm 41 and always knew I was a little girl inside this older woman but never knew what it all meant til I started learning about DD/lg and how it all fit but then I started thinking maybe I missed my chance to be happy in a DD/lg relationship because I see most little girls are so young at most they're in their 20's then I saw this post and now I feel hopeful. Thank you

[OlderLittle]

I would welcome any and all older littles to add me as a friend. I am not new to the bdsm lifestyle but I never felt I fit in cause I'm sub but a bit of a brat. Is it also strange that my eldest son is a Dom with his own pet?

[LittleVenom]

I have just turned 30 but since I have been an adult since I have had adult responsibilities when I was basically a child (moved out of home at 13 and had two children as a teenager) I can feel a lot older (or is that more exhausted) then most my age. But Mmm my little side isn't exactly something I just act out relationship wise....actually I am only very very new to the whole ddlg thing. 

 

I don't really hide being a forever child in front of my children as I think that would just be weird, and me not being who I actually am. They are used to having a mum who sings and dances as she skips down the shopping isle (hehe perhaps I just don't have enough shame). The funny thing is my eldest daughter, I swear she was born an adult. I have always been careful about her feeling that she has to take on this role but she assures me that is just her and how she likes to be. And since she is a really well adjusted teenager now I accept this to be the case. I am extremely open with her and we are quite close. I haven't talked about ddlg with her specifically yet, but have discussed how there are many types of relationships, genders and types of people and how that is okay even though they might not be the society norms, and also what relations would cross ethical and moral boundaries etc. 

 

Although I have never had a partner that has been around them that I have called 'daddy' before. My 'daddy' at the moment I haven't met in real life as of yet and we have agreed not to be around our children just for now. But I am wondering how it would work if he was living with us eventually just because he turns on my little side so much I would find it hard to adult around him! 

[Puck]

I'm pushing 40 myself, and I'm still little, I'm switchy now and I spend a good ammout if time looking after other littles but I do it with my stuffy in tow.

[OlderLittle]

I went through the posts and added most of you that are close to my age (41) I was thinking (as I saw the posts about embarrassing moments) that I do have 1 advantage being an older little with a 3 year old daughter who shares a room with me. Yup, if anyone looks at me weird for how my room looks or all the stuffies I can blame it all on her but luckily all my older kids are very understanding and already know I act like a little girl.

 

I have a friend who is a Dom and was once my Dom 10 years ago when He was first learning how to be one. We talked about Him possibly being my Dom again but I'm nervous because back then I was his "pet" and didn't know what a little was all I knew was that I felt like a little girl even around people younger than me I felt like they were more mature. Heck, my 23 year old is more mature than me. I was a bit of a brat with my old Dom friend too. I think I went off topic but I was saying that I'm nervous because 1. He's much younger than me (He will be 34 in a few weeks) 2. I hadn't told Him I was a little (until an hour ago when we both took a test "what type of Dom/sub are you?" He asked me my results and I showed Him the screenshot of my results. He hasn't told me His results yet.

 

I have no problem with having a younger Daddy because to me He isn't younger mentally. My concern is whether He would have a problem with me being a little.

[Dadaslittleguwl]

i am so pleased to find this thread.   i enjoyed identifying with other "not so young" littles as i read through your posts.  i am 45 and although ive never really based much on age, i do enjoy that Dada has more life experiences to share with me and teach to me. 

 

i am relatively new to DD/lg but always felt little.  Sadly i thought something was wrong with me and i kept my little locked away.  Dada embraces all of me. 

[Guest Rainbow]

I'm not quite 30, but I'm staring it down. Daddy is 38 and has 3 kiddos so I've had to learn a LOT. VERY QUICKLY. We aren't sharing a house yet, but the family is over all the time and WOW are they concerned about why I have so much Hello Kitty and why there are sippy cups up so high even I can't reach them and the closet by my bed that has a lock on it.

 

There were some questions at first about why I was calling their father "Daddy" (though they never question his calling me "princess") but they're younger (kindergartener through tween). I worry that the excuse of "because its my favorite thing about him" won't fly forever.

 

Some days I just don't care. I'll rock a Little Mermaid t-shirt and eat applesauce from a squeeze pouch around whoever and forget you if you don't like it. Other days I'm incredibly self-conscious about the whole thing. Depends on the day sometimes.

Sounds like we have something in common! I am 28, Daddy is 37. His three kids are 7, 10, 11. I moved in with him in January and he gets the kids for a week every few weeks. Lots to learn! We should swap tips and stories!