TheOneWhoKnocks Posted January 15, 2016 Report Posted January 15, 2016 As a 31 year old daddy it's relieving to see there are littles out there who have matured enough to understand the concept and life style of a dd/lg dynamic. I find on here it's mostly 18-20 year olds who enjoy things from their youth. Nothing wrong with that as perception has it that's what your little space is, but how when you're little in general? 2
Littlebee Posted January 30, 2016 Report Posted January 30, 2016 I'm 34 and have a wonderful 5 year old girl. I usually share my toys and she shares her coloring books but most of my toys have been "borrowed" by her only to disappear in her abyss of a room.
Guest lily Posted February 1, 2016 Report Posted February 1, 2016 Its nice to see older people can be in to this too.... I'm not over 30 yet but I'm not a teen, this this thread makes me feel less weird
Ruby-Rainy Posted February 14, 2016 Report Posted February 14, 2016 I"m 35 and I feel afraid to be little/dependent to my BF (36). I only recently "came out" to him; we've known each other a while. He said it just 'makes sense' about me. anyway, I'm afraid of being little/needy around him... Will he think it's creepy? Will he know how do be a Daddy? How come I can't even SAY the word Daddy to him?? I feel like he fell for Big Girl me and seeing my secret, vulnerable side goes against what he loves about me. yeah.... those are some of the thoughts I have that make me feel like I don't fit in here. :/ 1
Guest gypsyblue Posted February 15, 2016 Report Posted February 15, 2016 Well since I'm turning 33 in May I guess this is the place for me, and man am I glad I found it! I love the energy that the younger littles bring to the forum and chat, but like so many of you have commented, I'm just not in the same place as most of them and it makes me feel super old. Especially since I'm really new to realizing that my being little is a thing, and not just me being weird... I've got two beasties/monkeys/children of my own and luckily for me they're about the same age as little me (they're almost 6 & 7, little me is 5-8ish i think) so I have access to lots of toys/games/activities that are just right. They love it when I play right along with them, or watch their favorite movies with them so its nice to be able to be a little bit little during the day. Most of my little time is either when they're resting or asleep and has kind of always been that way, even before I knew I was a little.
TheOneWhoKnocks Posted February 16, 2016 Report Posted February 16, 2016 would it be possible to have an age verified section of this forum?what are your thoughts on this dds and lgs? 1
StarEyed Posted February 16, 2016 Report Posted February 16, 2016 would it be possible to have an age verified section of this forum?what are your thoughts on this dds and lgs? Exclusion causes strife. 1
Guest gypsyblue Posted February 17, 2016 Report Posted February 17, 2016 What StarEyed said. We can keep our thread and that's good enough for me.
LittleJosh Posted February 17, 2016 Report Posted February 17, 2016 im 40, and im a Little! Ive been a little a long time but i just never knew what it was. I didnt know it had a title! Once i found out that there were SO many others like me, i was SO relieved! And then i found this place and its like im awake!, Like im finally free to be ME! Although, i am finding that there are SO few boy littles, and alot more girl littles between 18-25. 2
Guest cookie_crumble_princess Posted February 18, 2016 Report Posted February 18, 2016 im 40, and im a Little! Ive been a little a long time but i just never knew what it was. I didnt know it had a title! Once i found out that there were SO many others like me, i was SO relieved! And then i found this place and its like im awake!, Like im finally free to be ME! Although, i am finding that there are SO few boy littles, and alot more girl littles between 18-25. We met in chat last night . I'm 37 and just finding out I've always have been a little. I feel so much joy in knowing there are others like me and around my age too. I was getting pretty discouraged when I seen all the young people. I should note that am a little, but I am a repressed one. I grew up in a family that is loving, but still rarely showed emotion. Thank god I had my sister for hugs and cuddles, others who showed emotion were teased or labeled as dramatic. Later I got into a verbally and physiologically abusive relationship with a partner that made it perfectly clear my little was a turn off and harassed me when I showed emotions. So, outwardly I'm a very stoic little, if that makes any sense and its compounded by my being an introvert. My little does not have an age because its just who I am. I only fully indulge when there are no adults or teens around. I'm just waiting for some friends to help me bust out of my shell and become more trusting. 1
Guest cookie_crumble_princess Posted February 18, 2016 Report Posted February 18, 2016 Oh, I forgot. I have children too, they accept me for who I am, but I am worried my little maybe younger than theirs. I am a horrible disciplinarian so, I could not be happier that they are such a good bunch. I do run into my fair share of awkward situations, even without ever having a daddy. They go sort of like this. Son: I don't want to go to bed. Me: Well it's bedtime, so go put on pj's. Son: Why do you get to stay up and play games. Me: Because I'm an adult! *Wrapped head to toe in my fuzzy blanket, holding our cat, and wearing fuzzy leggings* yea, great example. Or calling them back out of bed because I saw a cute kitty on FB or Youtube and I want to share the joy. 2
Guest starrflower Posted February 19, 2016 Report Posted February 19, 2016 I relate to you baby squirrel. I am not a stoic little, but suppressed my little many years. And I also never knew how to discipline my kids very well. I have always been more like a sister to them.
Aisling865 Posted February 28, 2016 Report Posted February 28, 2016 omagosh!! I'm so excited to find all of you! **jumps up and down excitedly** ok...so I'm 52 and I even hate typing it. I've had the hardest time lately. I love birthdays and mine was just last month and I didn't even want to celebrate it. 2
Guest cookie_crumble_princess Posted February 28, 2016 Report Posted February 28, 2016 Welcome to the group Aisling. *Holds hands jumping.* You can simply do what I do, forget...though it's not on purpose. 1
Aisling865 Posted March 2, 2016 Report Posted March 2, 2016 thanks for the welcome @Baby_Squirrel! forget my "real" age you say? works for me!! **runs through the room throwing glitter on everyone while giggling** 1
Guest little domi Posted March 10, 2016 Report Posted March 10, 2016 Hello! 46 and really excited to know I ain't alone!
tarnished_angel Posted March 19, 2016 Report Posted March 19, 2016 im 40, and im a Little! Ive been a little a long time but i just never knew what it was. I didnt know it had a title! Once i found out that there were SO many others like me, i was SO relieved! And then i found this place and its like im awake!, Like im finally free to be ME! Although, i am finding that there are SO few boy littles, and alot more girl littles between 18-25. Oh my gosh. This is mee..I'm 40 and didn't know that how I'd always felt meant something until I came across this dynamic..it's so nice to see so many other older littles so massive hellos.My 18yo said to me at the shops the other day when I said I absolutely loved this big rabbit teddy, "what are you 7?" She didn't think I was funny when I said "no 6", I didn't get that bunny 1
LittleBratMonster Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 I'm going to be 32 soon. Biologically.
littleinhiding Posted March 25, 2016 Report Posted March 25, 2016 Tarnished angel, you should have gotten that bunny! I know there is a jelly cats bunny I want but I feel guilty because I have a 5 yr old granddaughter. She knows which stuffie are non Nas though we share. There are also golly roll pens I'd like but I feel so selfish feeding this side of me and think my family will think I am weird.
Guest bitsy Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 Hiyea there, im 30 and a little, just thought i woulds make a post on here, have been trying to find a place were i can talk with other littles of similar ages i dont have any children and recently had to move back in with my own mum and younger siblings, due to unforeseen circumstances, so i have to hide my little side around thems. i loved reading this thread, hearing all the stories that were told and finding other littles like me and that aren't all children themselves. hope to become a regular on here and get to know a few of you
littleinhiding Posted March 28, 2016 Report Posted March 28, 2016 Biysy, I am so sad for you You need to let that little girl out. I know what it's like and I spent a lot of years being stoic and acting big. No more. I will be me and if others don't like too bad. I do understand the reservations and fear though Maybe you can love your little side when you are alone. She needs it.
littleinhiding Posted March 28, 2016 Report Posted March 28, 2016 Alexa, I undrrstand. Wonder of wonders, my husband just found out about me and is relieved that he finally understands me and knows how to "treat" my pain and awkwardness now. He has een loving and supportive. Be patient with this guy but don't waste too much time. You could be missing out on your own daddy. I left articles describing it on my bookmarks on my phone because I know he reads it. Maybe you could do something similar?
Guest bitsy Posted March 29, 2016 Report Posted March 29, 2016 @littleinhiding i do let her out when ever im alone, kinda something i cant help <3 i still allow myself to have all my stuffies and my other little things in my room
toraprincess Posted April 2, 2016 Report Posted April 2, 2016 Hi Just found this site today and I'm amazed at all of the "older" littles. I'm 40 and my Daddy and I have been married 22 years. We have only been Dd/lg for the last 9 months. I finally feel so loved and fulfilled in our relationship. 1
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