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~ Edited August 29, 2019 by EverythingIsAwesome

[Little kaiya]

You can't force someone to do something in a certain way just because you want them to do it that way. You can talk and explain it to him on an adult to adult basis, which it sounds like you've tried, but you may need to face the hard fact it may not be for him, at least not in the way that you want.

 

A lot of littles have a very specific picture in their mind of what they want/how they want to be treated by their partner and get upset if it doesn't happen. Just because your partner isnt doing it exactly how you want doesn't mean they dont accept you, that's your perception but it doesn't mean it's necessarily accurate. If he hasn't told you he doesn't accept you the that perception is more yours than perhaps it is his perception. Truth is fantasy and reality often don't overlap how we may want.

 

You may need to make the tough choice between do you accept that your partner is the way that he is and talking may not fix it or do you decide to look elsewhere or do you try something else to find a middle ground. It's not an easy choice but expecting him to change to meet your specific fantasy may not really be fair to him either.

 

Good luck in whatever you decide to do.

 

Little kaiya

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~ Edited August 29, 2019 by EverythingIsAwesome

[Little kaiya]

Another option I didn't mention, I admittedly forget it a lot, is you can always be little on your own. Watch some cartoons, cuddle with a stuffy, colour, etc. There are a lot if littles who do that when they either dont have a partner or their partner isnt imho DDlg to the same extent or at all.

 

You could also try making some little friends that you could connect with locally or online when you're feeling little to combat your feelings of loneliness.

 

Thete are always options to consider.

 

Little kaiya

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~ Edited August 29, 2019 by EverythingIsAwesome