What to ask a potetial Daddy?

[Guest daddy'ssweetpea]

Okay so I am talking to a guy who I hope will become my daddy at some point. I'm still getting to know him, ad I could use ideas on what to ask him. I want to get to know him both little and big because i feel that is important, and I feel like we have coverd a lot of the main things I can think to ask him? Ayone have fun get to know you questions? little or big  Thanks

[Daxter]

When I want to meet someone, I usually ask about their hobbies and their characteristics

 

If you are having problems with questions, I recommend play the question game. It's like truth or dare, except it's always truth, and so you just ask questions.

 

Depending on how the conversation goes, you can jump from various topics like likes and interests and how in littlespace is.

[StrawberryBabydoll]

Hi!!

Okay I'm not sure if this is allowed* but there's a super detailed and thorough list of questions on Littlespaceonline

Here's the link ^-^

 

https://www.littlespaceonline.com/app.php/caregiverquestions

 

*If it's not allowed, sorry!

[junebug0325]

Hi!! I want to start off by saying that these questions are just my opinion and obviously everyone’s preferences will vary. I think it’s best to judge the person you are talking to and to find the best situation or circumstance to ask certain questions. For example, if you just met him, it might not be appropriate to ask him how many kids he wants. Again, everyone is different and everyone has different preferences.

 

I think the most important questions to ask regarding long term plans are:

- What are your plans for the next 5, 10, 15 years?

- What are you looking for as a permanent career?

- Are you open to moving or do you want to stay in the area?

- Do you want to have kids? How many?

- Do you want to get married?

- Who will take on the majority of house work? Are you willing to split the housework 50-50?

 

In regards to the DDLG/BDSM lifestyle, I think these are the most important questions to ask:

- What are your hard limits?

- What are your soft limits?

- What would be your safewords?

- What primary role(s) will you be exhibiting? (I.e, brat, princess, submissive, little, etc)

- What primary role(s) will he be exhibiting? (I.e, Master, Daddy, Brat Tamer, etc)

- What is your aftercare routine? What are the things you expect of him?

- What is his aftercare routine? What does he expect from you?

- What type of rules does he want to impose?

 

I hope this is a good reference for the type of questions you might want to consider asking. Obviously, some questions will come immediately and others will come further into your relationship. But I think all of these were really important questions for me to ask my Daddy, and my Daddy agrees with the list that I wrote.

 

I hope this helps. If you need any help or want some advice, please feel free to message me with any questions you may have.

 

 

 

Junebug xxx

[Guest daddy'ssweetpea]

Thanks everyone, these help a lot

[LittleTeacup]

I'd also ask if he likes horror movies or not. You might want to match in that regard.

 

Also, what kind of music does he like? Is it important to like similar music or does it not matter? (For me this would be important).