Part time daddy?

[Pumpkabae]

So I've been talking with a potential daddy and he has explained to me that he would be more comfortable being a part time daddy for now. I said okay but I dont really know what that entails? I mean we mainly talk over text and he works full time (as do i) I'm just trying to understand what I should be doing differently or what exactly a part time daddy is?

[Daxter]

The best answer only he can give. Talk with him and ask for him to explain better what a part time daddy is to him

[Mister J]

IMO that does not sound right... I know there are lots of ways to be a Daddy or Caregiver but I don’t think it’s a part time thing. I would say proceed with caution...

 

If you are clingy and needy then part time may not be for you. But, you should ask first what he means by part time!!!

[NathanR]

Both of the posts above me offer some good advice. Coming from a person who wants to be a daddy, if I were sincere about the relationship and wanting to take things slow or go "part-time", it would be because I am still learning and getting comfortable with you and my role.

If I were not sincere about the relationship or what I was doing.... well. My advice to you would be to encourage you to pay attention and look closer at some of the facts & details surrounding what is happening in your relationship and make a decision that is best for you. Emotionally, you make yourself very vulnerable in a situation that requires the safety/security of someone you can trust completely. If that becomes violated because of mishandling, sometimes the damage done can be long term.

Stay safe.