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[Londondaddyx]

Hello everyone, I am a caregiver to a little one who I care about a lot and we are very close ddlg relationship and there's a lot of trust. ShE asked fora online/phone only relationship and I have agreed to that but I sometimes wish it was different ...anyone have any tips to manage this ? X

[Little kaiya]

You have to decide what you want and whether your current relationship offers that to you or not. It's very hard, but certainly not impossible, to change what you want. If you want in person now the odds are that isn't going to change or ever go away.

 

The best I could recommend is to talk to your partner to try and figure out why they want a phone/online relationship. See if there is any middle ground, like spending a weekend a month being physically together. If physical contact, not necessarily sexual, is important to you then you need to find a way to get that or it could grow and become resentment.

 

There are certainly some valid reasons for online only but from a sceptical perspective there are also some possibly concerning reasons.

 

Whatever you do to manage the situation just be sure that the person you are dating is indeed the person you think you're dating. There are just way too many catfish stories to ignore but the good news is there are LOTS if ways to validate things.

 

Little kaiya

[Londondaddyx]

Thank you for your reply, I know she's not a catfish and all that, we have sent many photos and spoken many times on the phone.

 

But I do see your point but she has made clear she don't want real time meets, which I agreed too, but I sometimes get mixed signals and I think your right kaiya that we have to have a open talk about it

 

dL