When to make it official?

[Lostlittle25]

[Nymph]

There is no magic number, also it depends on the kind of relationship you want.

 

For a "normal" real life relationship I say wait until you meet in person at the very least once, as before then you don't know if it will ever happen so it's safer not to get your hopes up or too invested.

 

If it's going to be just an online thing, as long as this is clear on both sides, you can go a bit faster after you realize you guys are a match, because there is no goal of meeting after that and you can just enjoy what you have if that makes sense.

 

In your case, I would say wait until you pass your manic episode and see how you both manage things. If this is long term it will happen again so you both need to experience it and make a plan for the future or realize if you want to even make the effort.

 

Getting close will just happen with time. Actually to anyone in a normal relationship I always advice not to get serious until you have your first argument... it is normal to have disagreements or get upset here and there, it should happen. People will usually show their true colors in an argument.

 

Every single person who has told me "oh but we don't ever have problems" has crashed and burned soon after because they didn't really have a relationship. It doesn't have to be full of drama but it's two separate human beings, you can't agree on everything, you can't adore absolutely everything.

 

It sounds like you are getting close to him already if you are looking for ways to make it work I think your heart is telling you to not give up on this guy as easily because he is special!

 

As for the title, I am verrry strict with it and don't give it away easily, as in I get in a relationship first and THEN if he has earned it I will offer it but I am like that for everything, I don't say I love you at first either, that usually comes before the title actually!

 

Also take into account some guys don't like the Daddy title so you need to respect that. If you are more flexible maybe once you get more into the DDlg aspects of the relationship (can handle you ok in little space or has help you get into little space on a dry spell).

 

Good luck~