New Little Looking for Little discussions

[ScarletBaby]

I’m completely new to being Little. I’ve kind of known for a couple years but only recently have been reaching my Little space. Only thing is I don’t know what I’m doing and I live at home with my parents. I can’t really fully go Little unless they go out of town which they don’t do often and when they do I’m frequently joining them. I go little after they go to bed unless I can’t because I need to be awake for work reasons. I’d love advice about being Little and letting those feelings transmit to my adult headspace. I don’t really have a daddy to guide me or anything. My last relationship ended four years ago so the only people who’ve been with me during little space was my two best friends, they’re nice and they love my Little self, but they don’t know anything about being Little other than the bare basics. I use pacifiers for sure and watch animated shows for children, not always cartoons but cartoons by the most basic of definitions, but other than that and my teddy I’m pretty clueless about Little space.

[Nymph]

Perhaps it would help to not having that all or nothing mentality. If you keep yourself from your little personality and wait until you can run to the closet and be "free" that will get really frustrating very fast!

 

A lot of people have a childish personality and are considered "normal" so allow yourself to be childish at least. If you have always acted super mature and serious it might look strange who people who already know you, so a way to ease them to it would be find something you really like but it's popular enough that is easy to identify. For example pokemon, mention to your parents/friends you started watching/playing and you are OBSESSED with it now because you absolutely love it. Then when you get some merchandise it won't look weird. 

 

If pokemon still feels unnatural and too obvious for you to be comfortable, then they just released the harry potter game app "wizards unite" that might be a good option.

 

Do you regress a lot? I am assuming you might since you mention pacifiers but some people don't like me (and even if I did I am a middle, it's like a tween). The pacifier can be saved to be used in private for now.

 

It might be easier if you make a list of things you would like to do but don't know how to go about it or feel too self conscious to do. You don't need a daddy to be a little, it's just a really nice plus!

Edited August 2, 2019 by Nymph

[ScarletBaby]

Thank you for that advice. I do have some tendencies like that already with all my anime’s, some of which are for younger people. So I guess I’ve done this a bit already. I just didn’t realize it was partially my Little self. I know I only partially slip into Little space sometimes but I never knew it could be quite like that. It’s a good thing I also joined Wizards Unite too then! Again thanks for the advice.