What can I do for my caregiver?

[Guest Kittenprincessxo]

I feel like I don't really do enough to make my caregiver feel like he is a caregiver. I do try my best, but I just want to be able to do better for him. I'd also like to mention that we don't see each other very often, about 2 weekends out of one month.

Does anyone have suggestions on how I can make him feel more like a caregiver/dom?

[Alaskan Daddy]

As a caregiver myself, what makes me feel special as a caregiver is when my little would sometimes send me a card

and tell me how much I have helped her in her life. She would list all the ways she has changed for the good because

of the care I would give her. It may sound like something little but it always melted my heart,

It is the little things from a little that can usually melt your caregivers heart.

[Guest littlebabyslittlespace]

Simple things make my daddy happy like colouring him pictures, sending cute selfies, long facebook messages, baking cakes etc

[Chicki]

food is a great one, assuming they enjoy the act of eating lol. my daddy does so much for me so I feel the least I can do is cook. baking or simple recipes are a good start. 

[Little kaiya]

You can't "make" someone feel like something. If you want him to know you love him and care that's one thing but you can't make him feel like a caregiver or a Dom, that's entirely internal to him.

 

That being said, if you want to show him how special he is to you and are unsure what to do, the best person to ask is him. So many people ask on the forum what to do for their partners but the reality is the person who knows best is your partner. Have the conversation with them, toss ideas back and forth. You cant ever really go wrong communicating with your partner.

 

Openly communicating in an honest and vulnerable way is an amazing gift to a lot of Caregivers in and of itself.

 

Little kaiya

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

Ask your caregiver what they would like for you to do for them, nobody knows what would make them happy or what level of importance anything is to them better than they do.

[Guest LittleSnowiii]

Every caregiver is different so I seriously recommend asking him this. 

Meanwhile try little activities: colour for him, maybe send him pictures cuddling your stuffies, maybe a pic of your daily outfit? Basically things that make him feel included with your life, and that he kinda knows what's going on.

Also at the end of the day, make sure to let him talk about his day. Confort him, love him. It might help him kinda loose a bit and maybe say what he likes ^^