Pregnancy

[Littlepeanut]

Hello.

 

It's been a little while since I found this side of me and unfortunately, I don't have anyone to talk about it.

 

This topic has been bothering me for a while and I wanted to know how it's dealt with for people like me, littles.

 

Has anyone had a baby of their own or adopted a child? How does one deal with it?

 

I've always wanted to have a child but have never felt adequate for motherhood. Now I'm questioning if the fact that I'm a little is the reason for it.

 

I wanted to know your thoughts or experiences...

 

Sorry if it's a repetitive topic.

 

x

[Papi.B]

My little has expressed similar concerns on this topic, the main difference being that she doesn't want a baby at all (though she maybe be pregnant currently). Personally I think it would be perfectly fine even fun to bring our baby into little space. I would love to take care of both my babies.

[Guest LittleSnowiii]

Alot of littles are mothers!  So you're not alone ^^

Sadly I can't give advice cause I'm not one, but just wait for one of them to show up here <3

[Nymph]

I am a middle and a mom of an evil 5 year old toddler. He is adorable and super fun, sometimes a bit scary and a bully but Daddy always rescue me XD

 

When I was pregnant we couldn't find out the gender until the 8th month or so, so we assumed it would be a baby girl. I was super happy thinking about all the fun things would do like tea parties and such and how I could sneak in my stuffies in her room and such (I am pretty girly) but surprise! it was a boy. Looking back I think it might be easier for girly girls to have a daughter because it can be very much like playing with dolls. For tomboys then a boy is ideal because they can get in trouble together!

 

I wasn't sure I wanted to become a mother, I was open to it depending on my partner, and I was mostly inclined to date older guys who were already divorced with kids so I figured I wouldn't have any. Daddy is a year younger, never married no kids so we decided we would have one.

 

I will be honest, an infant is no fun. Requires a lot of adulting those first few months and it's draining for both. But after that phase is over then you can even call your Daddy out in public and people will not blink because they think you are talking on your child's behalf for example. You have the excuse to go to all kinds of kid places, help them with their homework and play together, it's awesome.

 

Personally we got a bit unlucky coz our little own turned out to be very sickly at first, so it was an exhausting 3-4 first years. But on average I would think as soon as they can somewhat communicate and start potty train you can relax a bit and enjoy the kiddos fully.

 

I have thought about what age we need to start being careful around him, but I would guess I don't need to hide too much until he is like 9 or so and then it will depend on his personality and situation.

 

I hope this sheds some light on the matter, every situation is different.