Question for Daddies!

[KittyPrettyKitty]

Hiya! So, to all the Daddies, what gets you into daddyspace? I haven't seen anyone ask this and I'm really curious

[Brother Bear]

I've been in daddyspace since I was a kid! haha. Seriously, I just love people and want to take care of them. The only time I can think of not being in that mode is when I'm so emotionally damaged that I can barely take care of myself. Thankfully that doesn't happen too much!

[Guest Mr.Stuffykins]

I'd have to agree with brother bear on this one. I don't consider myself to have a "daddy space" because I'm always a daddy to my girl. I always feel the desire to baby her and remind her that she's my little princess. I suppose only the degree, or extent, of it changes. It ultimately depends on the situation and my significant other.

[Alaskan Daddy]

I get into daddy space whenever my little tells me how much she loves and appreciates me in her life and how

much of a difference I make. The other thing is when she tells me I am the BESTEST daddy ever.

[Alaskan Daddy]

when you put all those things together it gives me a high knowing the difference I can make in someone's life.

[KittyPrettyKitty]

when you put all those things together it gives me a high knowing the difference I can make in someone's life.

that's sweet : )

[KittyPrettyKitty]

I'd have to agree with brother bear on this one. I don't consider myself to have a "daddy space" because I'm always a daddy to my girl. I always feel the desire to baby her and remind her that she's my little princess. I suppose only the degree, or extent, of it changes. It ultimately depends on the situation and my significant other.

that makes sense

[SparkyShark]

Hey! Thanks for asking this question

 

There are several triggers, tbh.

 

For instance, any time i see my significant other feeling vulnerable and sad, I'll typically instantly go into caregiver mode. Daddy needs to fix the hurt.

 

There are spontaneous daddy moments too. These are usually the goofy times when I'm feeling like a big dork. Playful teasing and laughing. That's definitely a thing with me lol.

 

Then there are the disciplinarian moments. These are usually reactive to when my little is being a brat. I can have a very stern voice and a stern hand.

 

As others have said, it depends on the situation, significsnt other, and the relationship dynamics that are maintained by both parties.

 

Hope you get lots of different responses to this question - it's a good one

[KittyPrettyKitty]

Hey! Thanks for asking this question

There are several triggers, tbh.

For instance, any time i see my significant other feeling vulnerable and sad, I'll typically instantly go into caregiver mode. Daddy needs to fix the hurt.

There are spontaneous daddy moments too. These are usually the goofy times when I'm feeling like a big dork. Playful teasing and laughing. That's definitely a thing with me lol.

Then there are the disciplinarian moments. These are usually reactive to when my little is being a brat. I can have a very stern voice and a stern hand.

As others have said, it depends on the situation, significsnt other, and the relationship dynamics that are maintained by both parties.

Hope you get lots of different responses to this question - it's a good one

thank you so much :) very helpful

[zanderandspike]

Anyone needing protection or help, is like an instant 'momma bear will protect now' kinda feeling and it's sorta just like a flip that happens when someone needs any sort of help(like it could be grabbing something from the next room to something major)

 

so basically anyone asking me for help can trigger a sort of cg head space(provided I'm not in little space, but I can switch outa little mod pretty quickly)

 

~a switch 

[Leo_Ascendent]

I have kids, so I'm always kinda a dad. That and because of my little.