Having trouble to cope

[Guest]

I’m finding it very difficult to move on from my ex caregiver, although he has already moved on in the sense that his talking to littles. Me on the other hand I am very heart broken and having painful anxiety.

 

I really tried in talking to daddies but it’s just not working, I had so much love for my ex that it really hurts me, that I’m here now looking for a daddy. I feel like I’m not ready in talking to others yet privately.

 

I really miss my ex caregiver. He was the best, I could ever of asked for

 

 

I know it’s very unhealthy.

Edited July 28, 2019 by Guest

[Theasaurus]

I hope you feel better soon *huggles* ._.

[Guest LittleSnowiii]

Everyone moves on at different paces! So is normal what you're going through. However remember you deserve happiness just as much as him, so you need to move on for yourself. 

You don't need to talk daddies right away! You can take your time to heal and focous on being a little for you , not for someone else.

Don't pressure yourself ^^

[Little kaiya]

If you are in a place where you haven't or can't move on it may be better to take a break. If looking for someone else hurts you then it isn't fair to yourself or anyone else to try and start a new relationship.

 

Give yourself some time to heal otherwise you may be setting yourself and others up for failure and more pain.

 

Little kaiya

[SparkyShark]

it sounds like you might be rebounding a bit. if you look for your former CG in someone new, chances are it'll turn out bad. try to find some closure before starting a relationship with someone else - otherwise you'll just be chasing a ghost, and neither you or your new partner will end up feeling fulfilled by the relationship.

 

as others have been saying: give yourself some time, and find comfort in friends before looking to fill the gap your former CG left behind. you'll bounce back, don't worry. people are very resilient, and you'll come out stronger and wiser in the end

 

hang in there, little one.