Bad Little :(

[KittyPrettyKitty]

[Little kaiya]

You are 100% entitled to your feelings and ultimately the only person who can change those feelings is yourself. If it's too hard for you right now you may need to take a break. If you can't get over it at all then that gets rough but nobody can really change that for you.

 

Ultimately everyone has different interests and if your partner has dated someone before you the odds are their interests probably havent really changed so they've probably had partners or looked at people who have either worn similar outfits or indulged in similar kinks or types of play.

 

Personally I look at it this way, my partners arent with those people, they're with me. They chose to be with me. In the case you described above it isnt even an ex, it's just someone they found attractive. Heck, personally my partners and I will point out things, people, outfits, activities that we like so we can bring it into our relationship, we really dont get jealous or upset as it gives us fun ideas to use with one another.

 

On a slightly more blunt note, what were you trying to find when you Googled this person? Odds were there wasn't going to be anything positive that was going to come of doing that. It's in the past and you chose to drag it up to the present so now you need to figure out how to deal with what you found and nobody can do that for you. Best of luck.

 

Little kaiya

Edited July 22, 2019 by Little kaiya

[Ponygirl]

Could you maybe change the colour of your kitty outfit?  Or alter it a little bit so that it's not exactly the same?  Or could you instead of being a kitty, maybe be a tiger or panther?

[Alaskan Daddy]

as a daddy I can understand how your daddy feels and I am sure he is not thinking about anyone but you when you are dressed up in kitty gear. But at the same time I feel your feelings should come first. I feel what ever I do with my little it should be something both of us enjoy. I am sure as much as your daddy loves you in kitty gear he does not want you to feel so uncomfortable that you get no pleasure from it.  My advice is for both of you to express your feelings to each other and remember that his feelings need to be respected as his feelings just as your do also. 

I think lots of couples have problems similar to what you are going through. Maybe try to find something that is new to both you and him and make it something very special between you and him.

I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck.

[Guest Daddy-Tom]

Plenty of people have celebrity crushes that mean nothing. Celebrities' whole point is to be viewed as the most attractive people in the world. Being compared with them appearance-wise is good. That said, how do you know your Daddy has even seen this person in kitten getup? Could be completely unrelated. Aside from that, you said your Daddy used to like this person. Now he likes you. So nothing to fret about

[BigNutBrownHare]

We all learn by seeing and doing.  Not a lot of what we do is "original" but how and where we do it is.  It appears you feel your kitty had to be unique to be of value, but in reality the reverse is true. You will both have seen elements elsewhere and brought them with you. He had an idea of what he liked, and you loved doing it.  Don't let jealousy blind you to the fact that YOU brought them together for him. Your kitty, your space - and all just for him.  If that isn't unique, not sure what is.  Lucky Daddy!

[Guest LittleSnowiii]

He's interested in the kink itself, he isn't comparing you to the other girl. He's emotionally invested in you. The clothes are just a bonus that happened for you to wear aswell. 

However you are entitled to your feelings. If you really feel upset about this, take a break from dressing that way. Explain to your partner that you need a bit of time. And keep being honest and open with him.

[KittyPrettyKitty]

as a daddy I can understand how your daddy feels and I am sure he is not thinking about anyone but you when you are dressed up in kitty gear. But at the same time I feel your feelings should come first. I feel what ever I do with my little it should be something both of us enjoy. I am sure as much as your daddy loves you in kitty gear he does not want you to feel so uncomfortable that you get no pleasure from it.  My advice is for both of you to express your feelings to each other and remember that his feelings need to be respected as his feelings just as your do also. 

I think lots of couples have problems similar to what you are going through. Maybe try to find something that is new to both you and him and make it something very special between you and him.

I hope this helps and I wish you the best of luck.

The thing about this is that I thought it was our special thing... I thought we found and started this with just each other, which is true for me, but not for him. Which is why it affects me so much I guess