Always in little space.

[Pinkhousebunny]

[Guest Ttul]

So this is gonna be blunt but it needs to be said.

You are an adult. You still have responsibilities. 24/7 little space is unhealthy if you are not taking care of yourself.

My advice to keep it fun while doing what you need is to make rules with your Daddy about you need to do.

3 meals a day.

Drink water

Shower and brush your teeth

Clean up your room

And whatever else you need to do.

If you do a task you get a point.

So many points you get a reward.

But if you don't get enough task done you get punished.

Time out , writing and apology etc.

 

No matter what you are an adult and you need to step up. It is not your daddy's job to make sure you are doing the bare minimum. But if he wants to help you should be happy and make an effort to do a good job.

**If this is a mental health issue then seek professional counseling and psychiatry.

[Little kaiya]

Littles are still adults and that is a very important fact. As much as we love the attention of a Caregiver, the closeness and love we still need to be self sufficient because life can and does happen. What happens if he is in an accident and there is permanent injury or the worst happened? How would you take care of him or yourself?

 

How are you supporting him with his work, his life, his goals? DDlg is a relationship, it isn't supposed to be one sided. It's not an excuse to be lazy and irresponsible as you said you are being.

 

You say you dont feel you can change your lifestyle but that's a choice only YOU can make, no body else. If you refuse to make that choice you may find you push your Caregiver away and then what will you do? Only you can choose what you want out of your own life but being little always isn't realistic or fair to your partner or you.

 

Little kaiya

Edited July 21, 2019 by Little kaiya

[Ponygirl]

So this is gonna be blunt but it needs to be said.

You are an adult. You still have responsibilities. 24/7 little space is unhealthy if you are not taking care of yourself.

My advice to keep it fun while doing what you need is to make rules with your Daddy about you need to do.

3 meals a day.

Drink water

Shower and brush your teeth

Clean up your room

And whatever else you need to do.

If you do a task you get a point.

So many points you get a reward.

But if you don't get enough task done you get punished.

Time out , writing and apology etc.

 

No matter what you are an adult and you need to step up. It is not your daddy's job to make sure you are doing the bare minimum. But if he wants to help you should be happy and make an effort to do a good job.

**If this is a mental health issue then seek professional counseling and psychial

 

 

THIS. It's important to take care of yourself and be grown up as well.  It isn't healthy to always be in LS, especially if you aren't taking care of your bare minimum responsibilities.

[Fragile Princess]

Same tbh. I mean, I guess? 

I am naturally really childish and I tend to be naive and too kind to others, I love pink and childish things as big too.

I still can handle my work and responsibilies I have, but they overwhelm me easily.

I have troubles with eating normally, keeping sleeping schedule etc. And I way too often forget about my meds. 

I tend to say I am just always a little regressed, to the age of a teenager. Like, 16 years old? I even joke I am eternal sweet sixteen. I guess that's how it goes for me?

Maybe that's the way for you?

[GalaxyPrincess227]

I'm little pretty much 24/7 as well, but I know i still have to take care of myself and do my university school work.

I use a sticker chart to keep me responsible. And I use rewards as a way to make sure I reward myself for being responsible.

Each sticker on my chart counts for one point and I add up points to earn rewards.

That way I can still be little, but still get things done. I make sure I take care of myself, clean up my messes, and do the things that are necessary in my adult life.

Maybe you can try this out and see if it helps you be more responsible. That way you get to keep your little space, but you also can get things done.

Edited August 13, 2019 by GalaxyPrincess227