Little needing advice

[Claramae]

I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we haven't met yet. We wanted to try out ddlg but so far it seems like i'm more into it than he is. I want daddy to give me rules and act more like a daddy. He says he really into it but i'm not so sure. I need some advice here on how to get him to be more of a daddy to me.

[Guest ( ಡ ͜ ʖ ಡ ) MrGentle]

Being a daddy comes from within generally. If he's not exploring it on his own he might not be into it.

[Chelly]

I'm in a ldr too, haven't ever met in person. My daddy wasn't really strict about rules cause we talk sooo much every day and he felt he didn't need to have extra rules since he can tell me what he wants. However, once I asked him to give me some more rules, such as regarding my collar/necklace and bedtime, he gave me his rules for those and those are the couple we have. Basically, you need to tell him you don't feel like he's giving you rules and things as you want and try to work out a balance that works for both of you.

[Claramae]

Thanks, I'll give it a shot. I definitely want our relationship to work.

[Guest Lilkittygirl]

I think you need to talk to him. Communicate how you feel. It will help a lot

[Darkling]

All littles are different... same as all Daddies. 

Trust him when he says he's into it... 

You two will find what works and makes you both happy. 

 

Ask him what makes him feel Daddy... and then tell him what helps you feel little. Talking, there can never be enough of it.

[SparklyKittens]

Good advice