Khajiit_trash Posted July 16, 2019 Report Posted July 16, 2019 I’m a little and have been diagnosed with high functioning autism. Has anyone else in the ddlg community been diagnosed? If so, any tips or support?
Littlest_Bee Posted July 17, 2019 Report Posted July 17, 2019 I haven't been properly diagnosed so far but I've taken part in a study and got a result that said it's very likely that I am on the spectrum. I've relatively recently started to look into it and I think it would explain a lot. Is there anything specific you'd like tips or support for? 1
Khajiit_trash Posted July 17, 2019 Author Report Posted July 17, 2019 I haven't been properly diagnosed so far but I've taken part in a study and got a result that said it's very likely that I am on the spectrum. I've relatively recently started to look into it and I think it would explain a lot. Is there anything specific you'd like tips or support for? Maybe relationships? I love my daddy lots, but sometimes I don’t like the sexual stuff... I don’t get much pleasure from it, but I do it to make him happy
LittleTeacup Posted July 17, 2019 Report Posted July 17, 2019 I was diagnosed with mild Asperger's in high school. I just try hard to be myself and don't take it as a shame. It has become easier as I've gotten older. Maybe relationships? I love my daddy lots, but sometimes I don’t like the sexual stuff... I don’t get much pleasure from it, but I do it to make him happy This sounds more like maybe you're asexual too? 2
molliedollie Posted July 17, 2019 Report Posted July 17, 2019 I feel like I might be---it would honestly explain so much about me---but no formal diagnosis. 1
prince eefy Posted July 17, 2019 Report Posted July 17, 2019 i suspect i have it and a few of my family members and a few friends of mine suspect i have it, but i've never been diagnosed. 1
Littlest_Bee Posted July 19, 2019 Report Posted July 19, 2019 Maybe relationships? I love my daddy lots, but sometimes I don’t like the sexual stuff... I don’t get much pleasure from it, but I do it to make him happy Hmmm, well, I feel like I don't know enough to say something that's really helpful but I'll try: I would expect your daddy also loves you lots so it's important to let him know if / when you do not like something. Communication is very important for relationships. And especially with sexual stuff it should be a pleasure for everyone involved. From personal experience, I can say that if you try to ignore feelings of being uncomfortable with something in that regard, it can easily lead to not liking being around your partner and that would be far worse than being honest from the beginning. It is a difficult topic though so I completely understand that you don't know where to start. I find it's usually a good idea to tell the other person about positive feelings before leading into talking about the things that make you uncomfortable. Try to work out if there's a reason why you don't like it sometimes (assuming there are other times when everything feels good to you). You can try to work with notes or write a letter to him. You don't have to ever show that to him, it's primarily a tool to figure out what you want to say when you are ready to talk to him. But I'm not sure. I'm open to hear more. We can also exchange private messages if you'd like. 1
Khajiit_trash Posted July 23, 2019 Author Report Posted July 23, 2019 I was diagnosed with mild Asperger's in high school. I just try hard to be myself and don't take it as a shame. It has become easier as I've gotten older. This sounds more like maybe you're asexual too? I don’t think I’m a sexual, but I do know I prefer being sexual with girls..... but I do love my daddy
Khajiit_trash Posted July 23, 2019 Author Report Posted July 23, 2019 Hmmm, well, I feel like I don't know enough to say something that's really helpful but I'll try: I would expect your daddy also loves you lots so it's important to let him know if / when you do not like something. Communication is very important for relationships. And especially with sexual stuff it should be a pleasure for everyone involved. From personal experience, I can say that if you try to ignore feelings of being uncomfortable with something in that regard, it can easily lead to not liking being around your partner and that would be far worse than being honest from the beginning. It is a difficult topic though so I completely understand that you don't know where to start. I find it's usually a good idea to tell the other person about positive feelings before leading into talking about the things that make you uncomfortable. Try to work out if there's a reason why you don't like it sometimes (assuming there are other times when everything feels good to you). You can try to work with notes or write a letter to him. You don't have to ever show that to him, it's primarily a tool to figure out what you want to say when you are ready to talk to him. But I'm not sure. I'm open to hear more. We can also exchange private messages if you'd like. When I was younger I was in a emotionally abusive relationship and I lost my virginity to a 30 yea old when I was 16, so I think I’m just recovering from that... my daddy is aware of that, we’re just taking baby steps 1
Khajiit_trash Posted July 23, 2019 Author Report Posted July 23, 2019 Thank you everyone for the comments and support 1
Little_princess143 Posted July 24, 2019 Report Posted July 24, 2019 I am little and also on the spectrum your not alone<3
xlouise Posted July 28, 2019 Report Posted July 28, 2019 The doctors wanted to test me for it but i said no. So we will never know aww wells
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