Tired of all of these sensitive caregivers

[SpaceDoll]

so i get that everyone is into different things. Some people like overly caring caregivers. I like caring caregivers too, but i like caregivers who are more on the strict side. I havent met anyone like that YET. So im waitinggggg.

[52DDuk]

Please get in touch Spacedoll and let's discuss your frustrations.

[Little_Butterfly]

Are you finding out that they aren't strict enough in their style through discussions you have with them or their behaviour? Are you concerned that they're not saying that they're strict, or that they're not acting strict?

 

If it's the first, then that's fair enough and part of those initial chats. You decide from what they tell you about their style of caregiving whether they're right for you.

 

If it's the second, then that may be, rightly so, that you're not in a dynamic/relationship with them. A caregiver shouldn't be telling you what to do, strictly or not, until they're YOUR caregiver.

 

Either way, this is something to be discussed.

 

Good luck

[TheQuietStorm]

Your needs seem to align with my skills. I'm here if you want to speak.

[Anna5]

Being sensitive is not the same thing as being lenient. I don't see how it's possible to be driven by a need to care for someone and not be 'sensitive'.

 

But anyway, Little Butterfly is completely right. Fair enough if you are establishing incompatibility through communication before entering into anything, but if you're testing this via behaviours from the start, you're not going to get an accurate picture. I would never just start being 'strict' with someone before we were established in a dynamic, and I had a good understanding of their likes, needs, tendencies and limits, and we had some semblance of rules/expectations. And you should be wary of anyone who is willing to dive straight in and start telling you what to do/dishing out punishments (and obviously, calling themselves your Caregiver), before they've at least got a basic grasp of those things. Unless it's basically just roleplay you're looking for.