I'm very new to this!!!

[Beth1987]

So I'm very new actually really new to this life style. I have known for a long something was missing just wasn't sure what it was. It wasnt until I discovered this life style that this is exactly what to want. I love everything about this life style and haven't gotten to live it yet. I have done alot of studying, reading, watching videos ect. I know this is what I want but where do I find my perfect daddy? Any advice on this life style is very much a appreciated. Thank you all. Edited July 11, 2019 by Beth1987

[Little kaiya]

[Guest Gender-fluid-baby]

So I'm very new actually really new to this life style. I have known for a long something was missing just wasn't sure what it was. It wasnt until I discovered this life style that this is exactly what to want. I love everything about this life style and haven't gotten to live it yet. I have done alot of studying, reading, watching videos ect. I know this is what I want but where do I find my perfect daddy? Any advice on this life style is very much a appreciated. Thank you all.

I s true just be honest and ask questions. Learn to be confident in who you are. I've been in this lifestyle for 10 years or so and am a switch so I can be a little or a cg if you have questions or need help figuring out more feel free to message me.

 

It can be very hard to find a caregiver like little kaiya said. It can take awhile but there is someone out there for you so don't give up hope.

 

And welcome to the lifestyle!!! It is lots of fun once you make friends

[LittleTeacup]

I would try to practice the lifestyle by yourself first so you know what you like! Maybe check out some cartoons, buy a coloring book, play dress up, read an abc book, etc. Also you can stick around here and read posts by others also asking questions or the resources pages. It's important to know what kind of a daddy you're looking for before trying to go find him! You don't want to end up with an incompatible daddy.

 

Would you like a soft cuddly daddy who lets you make a lot of decisions yourself and supports you?

A strict rule-enforcing daddy who chooses what you eat, what you wear, etc and punishes you for any infraction?

A daddy you've got wrapped around your finger and gives you anything whenever you pout?

Or any other variation of daddies!

 

Be patient and confident. The perfect daddy for you probably won't appear tomorrow, or this week. Find what makes you YOU and live it all the time. Then your perfect daddy will be naturally attracted to you, or you will be attracted to him if you see him first. It could take a while, but don't give up!

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

https://bdsmfordummies.wordpress.com/2008/07/05/new-subs-guide-to-dominants/

[BabyBoop]

Oooh this is helpful for me too. Thank you.

 

Welcome Beth