Is my significant other trying to be a little or no?

[SquishyDomme]

So my boyfriend and I are experimenting and exploring each other's kinks. His are a lot more rougher than mine. But, he did joke around with me about how my old lovers would call me momma/mommy. So he said something like, "Momma I wanna snuggle" and I acted accordingly and played along. He was shocked but continued to play along with me. Kind of heightening his voice almost kiddie like. And doing little shy things with his hands and stuttering. It was incredibly cute. We didn't do anything sexual, just rubbing, cuddling and kissing. That sort of thing.

 

But later he came up to me and told me it felt nice being in that sort of position. He said it made him feel vulnerable and he liked it and he wants to try ghat sort of thing in a more "bedroom" setting.

 

What do you guys thinks? Do you think he is giving into my kink and wants to explore cg/l stuff? If so, How do I further this kind of thing and explore it more without freaking him out? Maybe sweetly talk down to him more?

[Guest lil-lunaxx]

I think you're on the right track just gently exploring the dynamic with each other. I mean it's impossible to say at this point how far it will go but it sounds incredibly exciting for both of you.

 

As always, just keep communicating. I wish you both all the best!

[Daddys-A-Hero]

Yes, that sounds to me like he's leaning towards feeling that way sometimes. And if that is something that you would enjoy too, I think its always a good idea to be as honest and open about your thoughts and feelings as possible with your partner, and to gently, carefully and slowly explore and try things and find out what works for you both. It sounds to me that he is slightly shy, embarrassed, or unsure about his feelings, especially if he is usually into rougher play, he may be confused that it seemingly superficially conflicts with some of his other urges. But it also sounds like he was testing the waters and hoping you'd reciprocate. Just try not to make too many assumptions, make it very clear that you are open to trying things and going slowly to see what he is comfortable with, and I'm sure he will very much appreciate it. Good luck!

[SquishyDomme]

Thank you for responding you two! I was a ready to throw toys and cute little clothes at him, but I really need to take it slow and communicate. He's just so shy, so I have to find the best way to bring it up.

[Daddys-A-Hero]

Thank you for responding you two! I was a ready to throw toys and cute little clothes at him, but I really need to take it slow and communicate. He's just so shy, so I have to find the best way to bring it up.

 

Yes, I'd be very gentle and careful. Even if he does want it, he may find it hard to admit, or would even feel guilt or shame because of it (for reasons we discussed in your other thread) so feel things out very gingerly, and make it very clear to him that its ok, and that you love him and support him no matter what his answers to your questions. Good luck!