Little radar in Big World

[Guest ConsiderateDaddy]

Whilst this forum has helped me understand what type of DD I aspire to be and the spectrum of Littles that exist, one thing that has struck me is how many Littles exist and that I probably know more Littles than I realise because you are under cover in the Big World.

 

Ideally I would like to have an IRL relationship but then again which of us wouldn't! Therefore I was wondering if I should be looking 'Little undercover' signs in the Big World. That way I could increase my chances of meeting a Little IRL rather that starting a new relationship which doesn't go towards DDlg?

 

So if it's not breaking any Little Code could you tell me what are the covert signs you display in the real world to which I should be paying attention!

 

Thank you for reading my first post.

[LittleTeacup]

If there's a Little Code, I don't know about it.

 

All littles probably do something different in public. I'm sure it'll be easier to notice those of us for whom being little is part of our personality than for those who keep it in the bedroom. I'm probably pretty obvious to anyone who knows what they're looking for, since I don't try to hide myself as much as I used to (and I was never that good at it).

 

I'll sometimes talk to myself in my little voice, stomp my foot or puff my cheeks out if I'm frustrated, pick up worms/ladybugs/etc from the street or sidewalk to rescue them, actually stop to smell the flowers, sometimes hold my friends' hands if I'm with them, etc

 

Physical appearance-wise, I never wear makeup, have clip on bows to sometimes put in my hair (however they are a more neutral white and light blue), sometimes have my hair in pigtails, wear either pants/shorts or skirts/dresses that allow me to fully maneuver my legs (no pencil skirts for me), often have a bright smile on my face or it's scrunched up when I'm thinking or frustrated.

 

Keep your eyes open for somebody acting delightfully childlike. They may not necessarily be a little, but it's a good place to start. Go to places like zoos and aquariums and look for excited adults there without children, whether single or with friends. If with friends, notice how they're interacting. When I'm comfortable, like with certain friends, I'll get even more little and run and point out things like "[friend name], look at the fish!!!!" and even jump and clap.

 

EDIT: wait now you have to share how daddies/mommies can be identified in public

Edited July 6, 2019 by LittleTeacup

[Guest ConsiderateDaddy]

Thank you LittleTeaCup. Some useful tips there, especially the last paragraph. I see a lot of young (18-22) girls wearing Disney T-shirts and some young women (22+) too. But it is so common I would want to assume anything. I think I would be more comfortable with a mature Little (35+) and I now remember someone I worked with who had Princess stickers on her phone. The bows is a good tip too. Thank you *big bear hugs and squeeze*

[NewPrincessBrat]

I pretty much agree with all of the above though I do tend to like child things and buy them.Last Year I wanted a Care Bear for Christmas and got if This year I want a Tickle Me Elmo!!...Cause It's Elmo!! and of course some Negan stuff from Twd.

[Ebony Fruit Bat]

I'll say it might be hard to tell a woman is a little in public. I used to wear princess like dresses outside, stuff with glitters and sparkles. Now that I wear more jeans than dresses I wear rainbow shoe laces. Once I wore my hair in a bunch of pigtails with different color scrunches. I like my innocence and will surround myself with cute colorful, soft stuff when I can. Much like Little Teacup I will stop to talk to insects (bumble bees are the best), birds, flowers too. At the grocery store I can be caught staring into the ice cream case like a kid. If I'm any where near toys I can guarantee I will have a stuffie petting, hugging it, or be booping them on the nose. I generally have a care free attitude and am in my own world when I'm not rushing about - so it really depends on who I'm with and what I need to do.

[Guest ConsiderateDaddy]

Thanks Ebony Fruit Bat (I think Fruit Bats are so cute and enjoyed watching them when I was in Sri Lanka).

Every bit of information is useful to help find tune my radar, so thank you.

[Breakingrules]

This may sounds weird but I'm pretty sure that you cant see that I'm a Little when I'm in the big world... But when you'll look in my purse, yoooouuu will see... I have a little plastic doggy in it, my Peppa Pig hairspray, when I have to do sometimes what will scare me I bring a little stuffie, my water bottle is full with stickers. 

 

So when you think someone is a Little, just try to look in their purse a bit sneaky

[Guest ConsiderateDaddy]

Thanks Princess Macy - I think I am seeing a pattern of sorts here. What I need to look out for is something that appears to be out of position and yet belongs at the same time, but is only visible if you pay attention. Not quite the Heisenberg Principle of Uncertainty but almost. So I think my radar is at least powered up with some basic functions. It will be interesting to see if it accurate 

[Breakingrules]

Haha keep us up to date!

[DragonAllFather]

This is a very interesting topic since I've been wondering the same during the past days, hahaha. Especially because I live in a very limited area (an island with less than 900 000 inhabitants) and I wonder which girl could be a little. Unfortunately, I don't have a scanner like robocop and the conclusions I have obtained are ambiguous. Could it be useful to look in the social media? Maybe many cute pictures and some images with stuffies could point to a little girl?