my baby thinks shes too big

[dadbones_babybeans]

hey yall this is my first time posting anywhere like this

 

so my baby isnt as short as most littles are and she really hates that but i keep telling her it doesnt matter to me how tall she is and that shes always going to be my baby if thats what she wants

 

now im here to ask about how many other doms have littles that arent happy with their height? i feel like if she sees that its more normal than she thinks maybe itll help her out some

 

and if any of you have advice for us that would be appreciated too

 

thanks in advance everyone

 

(also apologies if this is posted in the wrong place like i said above ive never posted here before)

[Little kaiya]

I'm noticeably taller than my Daddy. I'm 5'8 and he's just a bit over five foot. Not the traditional height dynamic but it doesn't take away from our dynamic at all. I'm not unhappy with my height but sure there are days I wish I was a bit shorter.

 

I still can sleep on my Daddy's chest. I can still curl up for storytime. He can still brush my hair and we can cuddle. Height like weight or other physical factors are only as much of a limitation as people let them be.

 

You and your little can always drop us line if you'd like to chat about it more.

 

Little kaiya

Edited July 4, 2019 by Little kaiya

[BlackRose13]

I am myself around 6ft and honestly I feel yer little, I always feel way to tall for anyone. Personally I would love if guys just wear those shoes that make them higher even if they arent tall to begin with. I still wear my high shoes tho

[Guest littlebabyslittlespace]

I feel too tall and it sucks I understand

[LittleTeacup]

But tall people don't need a stool to reach the cookies on the top shelf!!!!!!

 

Being little is a state of mind and has nothing to do with one's physical body. I don't happen to be particularly tall, but I'm taller than I was when I was 5! It's funny, but for a couple years in elementary school, I was one of the taller girls. But then I stopped and others kept growing And I was always me no matter what height I was nor how it compared to my peers.

 

Tall or short doesn't matter if you're a little inside.

[LittleCelticLass]

I'm 5'10". I hate being tall, it's not adorable, clothes are never too big, I've never had flappy sleeves. But my daddy doesn't care about all that. He loves my long legs and tells me all the time that tall girls are sexy.

[enefa]

My people! I also feel too tall and wish I were physically “littler”.

[PrincessPiglet]

I'm absolutely the same way. I'm 5'6" and not skinny. I love to sit on the floor and crawl because it makes me feel smaller but my litte age is between 4-7 so I feel silly crawling

[Cara Innes]

 I try to remind myself that, even back when I was an ACTUAL child, I was frequently taller and wider than my classmates. 

So, maybe remind her that, even with real life kid kids, there will always be variations of height and weight in any group...yet, that doesn't mean that those kids aren't children.   

In the exact same way, she's JUST as much a little as any other! That's something she can celebrate! 

[PrincessCarmilla]

So I know this is an old topic but I really want more than just the OP to know, it's really about a state of mind. 

Take me for example: I'm literally 6'3" and still manage to be one of the shortest of my family but I dwarf most people around me. But when I get smol, I get smol. My partner is 3 inches shorter than I am but they can make be feel tiny. Sure I'm always taller than they are, but my slender hands can grip their thumb in my entire fist. They are also stupid strong and can lift me off the ground.

But even with these perks, there's other ways that they help me feel small. Sometimes we sit together and they grab me onto their lap and squeeze me. I might still be taller but I have a hard time not going limp and just letting them hug me like a little kid would.

I'm still kinda freakishly tall and not at all a tiny person in most dimensions but when I'm little, it's not at the top of my mind. The world is so much bigger than I ever could be and it gets intimidating when you're smol. Not to mention I tend to stumble around, slightly slur my words, and become a lot more pouty when I am little. It's still just a headspace, sure, but it can be more real to me than some random reminders about my height 

 

[Gentleman_Daddy]

On 7/5/2019 at 12:28 AM, dadbones_babybeans said:

now im here to ask about how many other doms have littles that arent happy with their height? i feel like if she sees that its more normal than she thinks maybe itll help her out some

I mean, in my experience, it is pretty normal human behaviour to find something about yourself to feel bad about. It's important to remind her that it's ok and when she is little I would use a lot of language that encourages her to feel small "your such a tiny girl, do you need help with that?" "you're too small to do that by yourself". Ultimately, you can help her mitigate the feeling somewhat and improve her confidence but it's just something she has to come to terms with long term.

I did not realise we were truna raise the dead until after I posted

Edited July 8, 2024 by Gentleman_Daddy

[blingsing]

I'm a bigger girl weight wise. The idea that littles should be little is ridiculous. Little is who you are inside. It's needing your CG to hold your hand and pat your bum and kiss your forehead. How tall or big has no bearing on these pleasures.

[dldaddysprincess]

I'm a chunky baby and I get it. I've had similar feelings but my CG is always very good at reassuring me that I'm just who I am meant to be.