Is it possible for little's to be in a relationship? No Caregiver?

[Guest BestDayEver]

So, I've seen little's that are in a relationship together but not very common.

 

The question is, is it truly possible? And is it a type of relationship that's easy to maintain and to keep each other happy like Caregiver/Little? Or is it completely different in every way?

 

What's different and what's maybe needed, required, and any advice anyone can give me?

 

Thanks!! - David

Edited July 4, 2019 by FireyGrowler

[Guest countlieberkuhn]

I don't see why not!  I think this dynamic would work as long as both parties were looking for someone else they can regress with, and share the world with childlike wonder.  People looking for strict rules and boundaries would probably not find what they're looking for though.

[Guest Babykiwi]

This is very possible, and I'm sure there are many happy little to little relationships. It all just depends on what both parties want. This kind of relationship would probably only work for littles that age regress but are not interested in the power exchange of typical xDLx couples. The ease of which a relationship like this is maintained again would depend on the people involved. It's always about communication no matter what type of relationship two (or more) people are in. To start, you would just need to assess what you are looking for in a relationship and then find like minded people and try building connections. 

Edited July 2, 2019 by Babykiwi

[Little kaiya]

Edited July 2, 2019 by Little kaiya

[LittleTeacup]

I think it's possible. Not all littles need or even want a caregiver. If two littles just want to be little together and do cute little things, sure it would work. It could run into trouble if somebody wants rules and punishments, but with a lot of communication, even that might be able to work. I'd imagine the punishments would have to be determined ahead of time, and then each little would just keep an eye on the other one and say "hey you ate all the dessert! Our punishment list says you have to write lines now!" or something... It definitely wouldn't work with everyone. But if two littles love being able to color and watch cartoons together and then kiss too, they should go for it.

 

Another possibility is both littles sharing a platonic caregiver.

[CodeName: Trouble]

YES its possible, the people above are correct with saying that both parties have to have very fluid communication with their needs, and they need to be on the same page that NETHER is a CG and will not give affection the same way as one - but that does not mean littles can't be affectionate, attentive, and supportive of one another - it's just very important that nether one is forced into a CG role because its very draining and puts allot of stress on someone who can't/doesn't want to have it.

 

I am currently in a relationship of sorts with another little. We have a very special bond that I feel is well above a friendship and truly is one of love - thou it remains platonic. (we are like soul sisters!) While we are both very happy with each others company, we do pursue other partners to fill that CG/dom role, both of us want our own Daddy/Mommy/Dom but something that's VERY important to us is for our partners to get along with each other. We are kind of like a package deal, because I couldn't imagine not having this person as an active part of my life and anyone who isn't okay with that isn't right for me.

 

Even if our relationship isn't exclusive to each other, and is platonic, it is 100% valid and 10000% proof that littles can be in a relationship with each other! I think if someone finds another soul that clicks with them and meets their needs, a relationship forged on a solid foundation with the goal of building each other up and supporting one another to the very best of your abilities, then role and title don't matter. Love is Love, and that is ALWAYS true <3