New to all this, and I have many rambling thoughts & questions!

[Daddys-A-Hero]

[snip! removing because of privcy of my partner - thanks all for reading!]

Edited January 6, 2021 by Daddys-A-Hero

[FeistyLittle]

I am also quite new to this, welcome to the forum!

 

It sounds like you have a good idea of where to start in what you are looking for in a LG, that's really good. This is a lovely place to start, really. You will find many people who desire a geniune bond and life-long relationship with their Daddy/little girl!

 

What are the questions you have regarding your situation?

[FeistyLittle]

Ps: I "came out" to my husband about my little side very recently, didn't go super well! So I can only imagine the scale of stress you are dealing with regarding the relationship you are looking for and it getting out.

[zanderandspike]

Well I mean sense you know what you're looking for in a little you could make a personal, maybe meet some people, get the ball rolling

 

If you meet someone and click I don't see why signing a legal doc would be weird if they already knew, I guess I personally wouldn't have a problem with it

 

Also I think it's always worth exploring a little bit of your own little side which I believe you mildly mentioned, which you don't need a sig-nif for at all, and can order things online fore secrecy if you need

 

Good luck with it all  

[Daddys-A-Hero]

I am also quite new to this, welcome to the forum!

 

It sounds like you have a good idea of where to start in what you are looking for in a LG, that's really good. This is a lovely place to start, really. You will find many people who desire a geniune bond and life-long relationship with their Daddy/little girl!

 

What are the questions you have regarding your situation?

 

Thank you so much, yes I have very clear ideas of what I am looking for. In some ways its a relief because until I could put a label on it and find people with similar interests, I was starting to feel like I'd never find anyone with the same feelings. But its also scary because its all so new.

 

I guess my questions from the above were for things like if other people had similar worries about if people would misunderstand, how private or open people feel they can be about these things, if my hopes for a relationship with these parameters seem realistic, any advice on if its eve possible to bring these things up with potential dates and partners you meet outside of the community, or if its best to just reveal these things before even meeting - like only dating people you find through online communities etc.

 

Ps: I "came out" to my husband about my little side very recently, didn't go super well! So I can only imagine the scale of stress you are dealing with regarding the relationship you are looking for and it getting out.

 

I'm truly sorry that this has happened to you. I certainly know that (even though I didn't have words for it at the time) my general tendencies in this area became a problem for my wife and slowly drew a wedge between us. And yes, with my job and position I'm in a very dangerous position were my feelings around these kind of relationships could potentially damage my career and therefore future prospects to support my two (IRL) children. I will have to be very careful when exploring this. Even though I know that there is nothing wrong with it, its so easy for people to potentially misunderstand and twist it to be something its not.

 

Well I mean sense you know what you're looking for in a little you could make a personal, maybe meet some people, get the ball rolling

 

If you meet someone and click I don't see why signing a legal doc would be weird if they already knew, I guess I personally wouldn't have a problem with it

 

Also I think it's always worth exploring a little bit of your own little side which I believe you mildly mentioned, which you don't need a sig-nif for at all, and can order things online fore secrecy if you need

 

Good luck with it all

 

Thank you for your kind message. Yes I definitely know what I'd ideally like. I am considering placing a personal ad, yes. Scary big step. But people hear seem nice and if you don't ask, you don't get. I may just be brave and bite the bullet! 

 

I'm glad you feel that getting a NDA signed would not be a potential hurdle for someone. I think it may be the only way I'd be allowed to date anyone new, what with the large company and movie I'm currently working with.

 

As for my own little side, its interesting. I definitely prefer child-like things and like playing with toys, computer games, watching movies etc which I enjoyed as a kid. However I don't feel like I am regressing in age in any way, more that I am having nostalgia, and that I never really grew out of the child-like innocent and appreciation for cuteness, bright colours and happy things. I never really wish I was younger - however I do often wish I could be an adult and play these things with others. I definitely got a lot out of doing this with my own kids, but of course they grew up, as is the way of the world. Finding an adult who likes to play as a kid sounds really fun and wholesome and comforting to me.

[LittleTeacup]

Hello, hello, welcome!!! I gotta say, you sound like a really great guy. And I believe you 100%, after all what's the point of lying when you're anonymous?

 

I understand how tricky your situation is. The celebrity gossip train is always looking for something dramatic so it's important to remain as discreet as possible. What I would advise first, before looking for any relationship, is read through all the resource pages on this website and hang around reading and responding to posts until you feel more comfortable understanding what ddlg is all about. I've always been childlike, but it was only early this year I did some research and realized identifying as a little makes so much sense. It did take several weeks though to adjust and learn what it all means.

 

All littles are different. For some, it's an integral part of their personality (like it is for me) and for others it's a way to cope with stress or childhood trauma. For some, it's a kink they like to bring out in the bedroom but not during their everyday lives. And there are littles who are nonsexual as well. Some regress and some don't. For example, I don't regress. I'm childlike in personality, but I don't lose adult abilities. I can feel little and still drive my car (I'll just bounce in my seat or sing/talk to myself). My "little age" is a complete estimate. I'm not into diapers/pacifiers either, so if you don't like those, have hope you can find somebody also not into it. It's like other interests. Some littles like cartoons, others like storybooks. Some like everything sparkly and pink and others don't. Some prefer the old toys/tv shows of their childhood and others like new stuff. And like any other adults, our music tastes vary greatly.

 

Be confident and know you will find the right person for you. I agree with above comments that a mature individual will not object to signing a non-disclosure agreement if it's necessary. I imagine it comes with the territory of dating a celebrity. Many littles know when it's time to bring out the big adult side to take care of important matters like that. We are still full-grown adults underneath.

[Daddys-A-Hero]

Hello, hello, welcome!!! I gotta say, you sound like a really great guy. And I believe you 100%, after all what's the point of lying when you're anonymous?

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Thank you so much! Your post had SO much great advice! 

 

Yes, I was planning on just lurking reading, researching and occasionally posting, and learning and considering. I like the idea of posting a personal advert, but don't feel I'm quite ready. But I must admit, that out of the blue, someone messaged me, and we have been chatting extensively, and I have learned a lot from her, and cemented feelings and ideas I had further.

Edited July 4, 2019 by Daddys-A-Hero

[Guest SweetMan247]

Bravo to you, Daddys-A-Hero for having this all so clear in your own head that you can write such a compelling and fascinating summary of what brings you here.  I have so much excitement for you starting on your journey to a whole new kind of relationship!  Thank you for writing all that you did!

[Daddys-A-Hero]

Bravo to you, Daddys-A-Hero for having this all so clear in your own head that you can write such a compelling and fascinating summary of what brings you here.  I have so much excitement for you starting on your journey to a whole new kind of relationship!  Thank you for writing all that you did!

 

Thank you so much!

 

I'm very glad I found this community    Yay 

Edited July 4, 2019 by Daddys-A-Hero