What kind of little am I?

[Guest kitten-baby-girl]

I act more like a teen a lot of the time and it makes me feel self conscious because i take care of myself mostly and don't use 'little language' or anything, most of my little space consists of watching Disney movies/teen romance movies, being fed, and just acting a little younger than my real age instead of way younger... not many Daddies seem to enjoy that and it makes me feel bad especially when i want to be that way, it just doesn't happen for me a lot of the time   Am I a 'real' little? And i mean, i'm almost not dominant AT ALL, so it isn't possible i could be a Mommy or switch or anything dealing with dominance, i'm just more capable. It's not that i don't enjoy being babied either, i quite enjoy it when it happens. I'm just used to it not happening so i can take care and deal without it easier. I wanted to get advice from littles specifically

Edited June 26, 2019 by kitten-baby-girl

[Guest Teasing Tink]

It sounds like you may have some "middle" tendencies too but honestly, this stuff manifests differently in everyone and I don't think labels are super important as everyone is unique. Regardless, you sound adorable and I'm sorry you've felt shamed for not feeling good enough or what many daddies seem to enjoy. I'm certain that there are daddies that will enjoy your own version of littleness/middleness though as not everyone is even into age play. It sounds like you may not engage in age play so much -- which doesn't make you any less "little"/"middle," in my opinion since it's mostly just a head space and not every "little" likes to age play. Everyone is different. I think that different people tend to bring different sides of ourselves to the surface too -- so it really depends on the dynamic you have with someone and how safe you feel to really let your guard down around them to be fully yourself. 

 

Anyways, that's my two cents and I'm sure other littles will chime in. Keep on being you

[Guest Kaori]

I think you would find this resource most helpful with deciding what kind of little you are. https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/36936-types-of-littles/

 

As for being more independent and self-sufficient, that's not a bad thing and true some daddies are turned off by that. However. You'll either find someone that isn't bothered by it and is willing to wait the amount of time it takes for you to trust them and give your submission to them. Or, you'll find someone that is looking for a more self-sufficient little. Being self-sufficient doesn't make you any less of a little or a "fake little" as some people might try and have you believe. You're just cut from a different cloth and that's okay!