Is being a little right for me?

[SweetToothLittle]

I have been interested in the DD/lg dynamic, reading about it online. To me a lot of aspects about it make my stomach flip and my heart flutter in excitement. I really feel like this could be what I’ve been searching for, however there are aspects about it that make me unsure of whether I would make a good little or not. I would love to discuss different aspects with people whom are well integrated into this lifestyle, because I would hate to disappoint a Daddy if this was not what I thought.

[Alaskan Daddy]

Hi

There are many types of 'littles' and they all have different DDLG qualities. There are so many different aspects of being a little and not everyone of them will appeal to you. Also there are many different types of daddy's. The important thing is that you discover what you want as a little (if anything) and maybe find a daddy that matches your desires and needs and will love and nourish your little side.

To me as a daddy every little is a 'good little'.

[MasterPhotog]

As you said, 'To me a lot of aspects about it make my stomach flip and my heart flutter in excitement. I really feel like this could be what I’ve been searching for . . . ' this is what matters most. 

Follow your dreams and go slow, even though there are no guarantees in life, however be prepared to deal with challenges and difficulty knowing that you would love the final result. Best wishes! 
 

[LittleTeacup]

SweetToothLittle,

 

Every little is different! You might like some things associated with littles and not like others, and that's completely normal. The important thing is if you identify as a little or not.

 

Some littles are only little around their significant other, some are only little when alone, some both. Some are sexual and some aren't. Some see it as a category of BDSM and others are relatively vanilla. Some have loads of rules and punishments and others don't. And every little has different interests, just like not all children like the same things. Maybe you like a security blanket, maybe watch cartoons (either new ones or ones you grew up with), maybe want a collection of stuffies, maybe use a pacifier or diapers, maybe you like playing pretend games outside, maybe none of these things or just some of them. Find the things you like and don't feel like you're not a good enough little.