I think my boyfriend knows I'm little ... but we never talk about it (help me! or just listen)

[alittlehoneyb]

So basically, me and my daddy have been together for over a year now, and we both know that I’m a little. The catch is: WE NEVER SPEAK ABOUT IT.  I think he knows I am super embarrassed of it, so embarrassed that I will shut down if it goes too far. I know this is something I should work on by myself, but we live together and I think having his approval and love would just be so healing and amazing. And I can’t keep this secret anymore.

 

He has been nothing but supportive and never makes me feel ashamed about any of this, so I just have to bite the bullet and say something. Should I write it down, pass notes with him? (I can’t physically speak when I shut down like that) or should I text him while he’s out of the house, so I don’t panic? 

 

I think because I truly never experienced childhood, so for someone to see me little is very berry scary. I was made fun of if I acted like a kid when I was younger so … I’ve repressed that part of me for a long time and its finally coming out. 

 

Any advice would be so so great. I guess it’d also be nice just to get some reassurance that I should tell him. Any encouragement would be appreciated <3

 

Reasons he should be ok with it:

 

He likes when I call him daddy

He calls me cute when I color 

He’s called me a toddler or childlike before

He says I’m little when I’m acting like it

He knows what ddlg is 

His ex watched kids shows and he was ok with it

Hes watched kid movies with me

He likes when my hair is all cute and little like (ex. pigtails)

Sometimes when I whine he comments on it.

He loves me a lot

 

EDIT: if this is the wrong place to post please let me know!

Edited June 5, 2019 by alittlehoneyb

[Guest Daddy-Tom]

Only the final reason you mentioned matters, the fact that your partner loves you. Given that he's shown it in so many ways, you've got nothing to be afraid of. I think writing notes or texting is a great idea if you're unable to speak but relax, you've got this.

[CryBabyUniWolf]

It sounds like it will work out really for you if you decide to talk to him about it.

 

Sounds to me like he's already your daddy?

 

Best of luck!!!

[Guest PrincessSparkles35]

I would text him while you're both at home so you are able to feel comfortable and say what you want. It might help decrease some anxiety. I hope the best for you. It sounds like he is a daddy and is waiting for you to say something when you're ready. Good luck

[Daddys little Baby_Bear]

Honestly, it sounds like he's already your daddy. I would probably write out a note explaining all of this or possibly even show him this post.

[LittleTeacup]

So it seems like he knows you're a little and he's already doing daddy things. All that's needed is you telling him and making it official.

 

If you're having trouble saying so out loud, how about writing a letter to him on cute paper and addressing it to "daddy" and placing it somewhere he'll see it? You could write that you're too shy and your voice won't work so you're telling him this way instead.

 

Or you could give it to him and say you're gonna hide under a blanket while he reads it.

 

Good luck!

[Mara]

Thats is what I have with my boyfriend, he has just always been acting like a daddy. I just never told him, I did slip into little space a couple of times because he already acts really daddylike. I told him or he more or less figured it out by himself to keep guessing stuff because I was embarrassed about it. But now he knows and he is super cool about it the only thing is that he doesnt really know how to be a daddy but it will work out eventually.

[alittlehoneyb]

So it seems like he knows you're a little and he's already doing daddy things. All that's needed is you telling him and making it official.

 

If you're having trouble saying so out loud, how about writing a letter to him on cute paper and addressing it to "daddy" and placing it somewhere he'll see it? You could write that you're too shy and your voice won't work so you're telling him this way instead.

 

Or you could give it to him and say you're gonna hide under a blanket while he reads it.

 

Good luck!

I love both of those ideas! I always hide under blankets and I think a cute little prewritten note will work super well. Thank you!!

[alittlehoneyb]

Thats is what I have with my boyfriend, he has just always been acting like a daddy. I just never told him, I did slip into little space a couple of times because he already acts really daddylike. I told him or he more or less figured it out by himself to keep guessing stuff because I was embarrassed about it. But now he knows and he is super cool about it the only thing is that he doesnt really know how to be a daddy but it will work out eventually.

Aw! I hope you guys work everything out soon! It's nice to know there are others like me.

 

I feel guilty being so ashamed of my little space, because I think others in little space are so cute and precious. But I'm hoping that both of us get more comfy since our daddies will know everything now good luck