Guest Chibiusa Posted May 28, 2019 Report Posted May 28, 2019 I've been trying to look for a topic with examples of punishments but I must be overlooking it. My little tends to test his limits with punishments so I've been trying to think of some that I could use as a starting point. It's hard to think of some that are platonic cg/lb friendly. Of course I've stuck with lines as a form of punishment. Would definitely appreciate some help with examples! Thank you!
Luna (they/them) Posted May 28, 2019 Report Posted May 28, 2019 Hi! I'm actually planning to discuss this with my platonic mommy, who's given me rules but no punishments. Personally, it's hard for me to follow rules unless there is some sort of punishment if i break them. Personally, we are ldr, but it sounds like our dynamics have quite a bit in common! Here's some of my ideas (I've also used some of these for my littles in the past): -Corner time: can be used online in the form of not being able to respond in a group chat or private chat for a certain amount of time. However, taking away both is absolutely not ok in my opinion, because they need their support systems!!! - grounded from a stuffie: put a stuffie in a drawer and no playing with it for a few days -no sugar/caffeine for x time- best if you have broken sugar/caffeine rules - early bedtime: best if a bedtime rule was broken hope i could help! Usually specific rules broken have specific punishments, if that helps 1
Guest Chibiusa Posted May 28, 2019 Report Posted May 28, 2019 Hi! I'm actually planning to discuss this with my platonic mommy, who's given me rules but no punishments. Personally, it's hard for me to follow rules unless there is some sort of punishment if i break them. Personally, we are ldr, but it sounds like our dynamics have quite a bit in common! Here's some of my ideas (I've also used some of these for my littles in the past): -Corner time: can be used online in the form of not being able to respond in a group chat or private chat for a certain amount of time. However, taking away both is absolutely not ok in my opinion, because they need their support systems!!! - grounded from a stuffie: put a stuffie in a drawer and no playing with it for a few days -no sugar/caffeine for x time- best if you have broken sugar/caffeine rules - early bedtime: best if a bedtime rule was broken hope i could help! Usually specific rules broken have specific punishments, if that helps Thank you so much!! I've never thought of the early bedtime rule but I love it! It does sound like our dynamics have some similarities! We are long distance with a pretty big timezone difference which tends to be a bit difficult but worth it.
Luna (they/them) Posted May 28, 2019 Report Posted May 28, 2019 I'm glad i could help! If you need more advice dont hesitate to ask
Lollipox Posted May 28, 2019 Report Posted May 28, 2019 There’s one pinned in DDLG Discussion https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/27958-rewards-and-punishmentsfunishments-ideas-charts-etc/ And this one: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/23277-punishments/?hl=punishments&do=findComment&comment=193023 & LDR Punishments https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/23789-ldr-punishments-for-bratty-littles/page-2?hl=punishments&do=findComment&comment=204025 Hope those help a lil. 1
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