A few questions on different types of Littles

[Guest Butterfly3]

I was looking up on this forum and there is nothing that talks about "ageplayer" which is shocking from what I was reading on another site that was talking about that different types of Littles. 

So, I thought I'd ask here. I get that people can take a term and see it in their own light on what it means to them. So what does age player mean to you?

This site was talking about what is a little, middle, adult teen. They gave examples too, which really helped. I can relate to little and middle personally.

 

When it came to the age player definition, it said two or more of the definitions. So, I guess since I can relate to little AND middle, that would make me an age player?

 

I've heard quite a lot of people say they aren't into age-playing at all, calling it "sick" or whatever. So it makes me think that site I was looking at wasn't correct. Is it? I don't know if I can link it (like against the rules and stuff?). But it's from littlespaceonline. Is that a good site?

[Owa Famosa]

Age play is by definition: adult person plays a role of certain age from baby to elderly.

 

This can be sexual or/and non-sexual. 

Parts of the roleplay be clothing, acting and talking like the certain age.

[Guest DollyGirly]

Okay, most (not all) people use "age play" in the bedroom during sexual encounters. The reason why people call it "sick" is because it is often sexual in nature and that is very taboo in our society. The taboo part usually comes with the sexual part and most people who aren't into this kink find it abhorrent and disgusting. Why? It's pretty easy to see if it's a pairing of a sexual little (meaning sex WHILE little) and a DD/MM/CG (not a little).  I mean, think about it. It's pretty easy to see how people would find it sick. Some of us sexual littles struggle with acceptance of who we are because it is so taboo and "wrong". Even nonsexual littles have the stigma of a grown-up acting like a child. That just isn't acceptable in our society. I will add that we aren't actually doing anything wrong. This kink/lifestyle is always ONLY between consenting ADULTS.

 

With that said, littles are basically age players too. Although, the more traditional definition of an age player would be someone who takes on a role, fulfills the role and then isn't that age anymore. Little only on the outside. The difference is that littles are still in the "role" because that's who they are.

 

Also, relating to multiple ages is fine. Many littles do.

Edited May 27, 2019 by DollyGirly

[SamL]

So, I thought I'd ask here. I get that people can take a term and see it in their own light on what it means to them. So what does age player mean to you?

 

To me, it's like this: As Thor, Chris Hemsworth is acting by role playing a God, but he is clearly not a God (quit it ladies, he only looks like a God).  When Bruce Lee played a martial artist, he was not role playing - but he was acting.  Likewise, an age player is acting and role playing - while a little is just acting.  I don't mean 'acting' as in fake...but rather, just as Bruce Lee wasn't throwing fake kicks and punches, it was directed by Hollywood's version of "Safe, Sane and Consensual" and negotiating a scene via the script.

[Owa Famosa]

 

With that said, littles are basically age players too. Although, the more traditional definition of an age player would be someone who takes on a role, fulfills the role and then isn't that age anymore. Little only on the outside. The difference is that littles are still in the "role" because that's who they are.

 

 

Oh now I get the context. Excellent described.

The personality and self-esteem describes the age of the little regardless of born age. Thanks for opening a new way to look at ageplay.

[Lollipox]

I don’t think that the site and its staff would have been calling Ageplayers sick. I’m assuming you mean other users?

They have a larger abdl and die-hard Little base. I once saw a topic on there stating that ONLY diaper wearers should be allowed to wear onesies because “that’s what they’re made for. There’s no point in non AB’s wearing them.”

It’s just differing POVs, doesn’t make them any more or less important.

 

There is a list for different types of Littles on here (found in Resources) by one of the Moderators (Barbie/Stella/Goddess):

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/36936-types-of-littles/

 

Whilst it doesn’t go in-depth about ageplay, it does refer to Ageplay 101, written by another member.

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12490-age-play-101-0-4-years-old/

[Guest Butterfly3]

Age play is by definition: adult person plays a role of certain age from baby to elderly.

 

This can be sexual or/and non-sexual. 

Parts of the roleplay be clothing, acting and talking like the certain age.

 

Oh, ok thank you for explaining it. 

Okay, most (not all) people use "age play" in the bedroom during sexual encounters. The reason why people call it "sick" is because it is often sexual in nature and that is very taboo in our society. The taboo part usually comes with the sexual part and most people who aren't into this kink find it abhorrent and disgusting. Why? It's pretty easy to see if it's a pairing of a sexual little (meaning sex WHILE little) and a DD/MM/CG (not a little).  I mean, think about it. It's pretty easy to see how people would find it sick. Some of us sexual littles struggle with acceptance of who we are because it is so taboo and "wrong". Even nonsexual littles have the stigma of a grown-up acting like a child. That just isn't acceptable in our society. I will add that we aren't actually doing anything wrong. This kink/lifestyle is always ONLY between consenting ADULTS.

 

With that said, littles are basically age players too. Although, the more traditional definition of an age player would be someone who takes on a role, fulfills the role and then isn't that age anymore. Little only on the outside. The difference is that littles are still in the "role" because that's who they are.

 

Also, relating to multiple ages is fine. Many littles do.

 

Thank you for going into more detail too. I was wondering why it was like that too, I've been finding out. Oh well definitely, we are all adults! Right? 

 

That's how I see myself a little bit more. 

I don’t think that the site and its staff would have been calling Ageplayers sick. I’m assuming you mean other users?

They have a larger abdl and die-hard Little base. I once saw a topic on there stating that ONLY diaper wearers should be allowed to wear onesies because “that’s what they’re made for. There’s no point in non AB’s wearing them.”

It’s just differing POVs, doesn’t make them any more or less important.

 

There is a list for different types of Littles on here (found in Resources) by one of the Moderators (Barbie/Stella/Goddess):

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/36936-types-of-littles/

 

Whilst it doesn’t go in-depth about ageplay, it does refer to Ageplay 101, written by another member.

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12490-age-play-101-0-4-years-old/

Oh no no! You misunderstood me. I was just saying in general. I'm on other sites and have read articles talking about it.

 

Oh well yea there can be difference of opinions too. I don't know if you guys discuss stuff like that here. I have to re-read the rules.

 

Yea, I seen that earlier today! I needed to edit it. While I was on the site, I didn't see anything, but while I was in the forums, they started to highlight what I put in -.- I first googled ddlg forum and my question. So maybe that's why it didn't work at first? Thank you for posting the links though, that's nice of you. 

[Lollipox]

Oh. Well yeah, in general ageplay is viewed as taboo lol

Because it’s adults pretending to be children, most commonly as part of their kink.

 

YW for the links. Apologies if they weren’t too helpful.

[xBabydollx]

An ageplayer is someone who role-play being an age younger or older than what they are biologically. It can be sexual or nonsexual play, but it's considered a form of kink imo. It is its own thing. Not all littles are into ageplay, as not all littles role-play being a different age. Doing childish things or activities isn't the same as truly pretending to be another age. At the same time, not every ageplayer is a litte, and not everyone who enjoys their company is a Daddy/Mommy. With ageplay it is common for some to simply enjoy calling their partner Daddy/being called DDaddy's it may turn them on, or role playing being really young for fun, and they don't seek that power exchange or guidance like in ddlg, it is all just a role and not who they really are. Unless ofc, they are a little who also ageplays.

[Featheredfaith]

Hi hi, 

So I'm going to chime in here on the concept of 'if you relate to ,multiple ages or age ranges does that make you necessarily an ageplayer' 

 

So I'm a mittle (that Middle + Little combo) and I do not consider myself an ageplayer, though i am sexual in both age ranges. as always, Sam hits the nail on the head. I'm Bruce Lee in that analogy. i don't hang up my hat just because I'm not in the bedroom. I'm me, 24/7 always. however, me has parts of my personality. i'm not split personality or anything, I'm TYPICALLY a Middle... always. It's just who i am inside. On  rare occasion, during times of extreme stress or specific triggers I do regress to a Little. none of that is "play'. Because i'm a fully functioning adult who enjoys adult relationships I am also a sexual being, but that part of me doesn't magically become older (or younger) because of it... I'm me, and if Daddy is in the mood ^__^ I'm down. 

[Faetheor]

I think when people define age play as sick they misunderstand. I am not in any way attracted to children. I am attracted to grown women who can find their childlike innocence and can be secure enough to become childish with me. I am very attracted to the unfettered adoration (childlike crush? puppy love?) that ddgl gives me, I find pigtails and pj's on women much more exciting than make up and lingire ( I know that inst spelled right LOL) thats the daddy aspect. The dom aspect for me Is I love to be begged and I find a moderate rule set and punishment expectation fun. I think vanillas get to caught up in thinking were pedophiles to even bother finding out that we are far from it.