Controlling little

[Just a little one]

Mate im gonna knock my head against the wall in a min why cant i get over the anxiety and panic attacks of girls around my daddy. Like a guy known for beinf a sleeze is trying to get daddy into a band and theyve got a female singer. Mate i cant deal with it. Like obviously i cant be like boy your aint doing it and i havent said anything to daddy but my lil psycho ass going nuts. Ive had enough of this i feel like such a controlling bitch because i know he doesnt do certain things because of how bad i get like ive never stopped him doing anything or speaking to anyone and he always says its okay but he knows i get so scared when afemale talks to him he growls if a male talks to me and its really cute. But ive tried everything to stop being so bad with it but im at the point of breaking up with him because it's just too tiring for us both i feel. Im terrified everytime his phone goes off. I feel like im just a toxic prick. I dont want to live in fear anymore.

[Littlest_Bee]

So, I looked a bit to see what else you posted and saw that topic where you discussed having a child together and how it lead to having less physical intimacy.

 

I wonder if that might still be the case and fueling your insecurity. Especially as young parents there are a number of problems that will strain a relationship but I would recommend trying to work through the issue, maybe consider if it's possible to address it with the help of a couple's therapist.

A professional unbiased perspective can do wonders.

[Guest SugarSweetBear]

Could you try discussing your concerns? Maybe you could go to a cafe or something nice and rather saying "please don't do it" you could say "I'm just nervous about -"

[Just a little one]

Ive tried loads and all he says its okay baba, ive never soas sont do it.i alwys encourage him to go out and dot hings but he knows that it causes panic attacks so he doesnt go. Like im juat at breaking point im not happy. Like when hes here we argue and when hes at work i just want him back. Im so emotionally drained but hes thw perfect person.

[Littlest_Bee]

How much do you go out yourself? I know it's difficult with a newborn but it would probably be good to have some contact with other mothers at least.

[Guest LittleSnowiii]

Mate im gonna knock my head against the wall in a min why cant i get over the anxiety and panic attacks of girls around my daddy. Like a guy known for beinf a sleeze is trying to get daddy into a band and theyve got a female singer. Mate i cant deal with it. Like obviously i cant be like boy your aint doing it and i havent said anything to daddy but my lil psycho ass going nuts. Ive had enough of this i feel like such a controlling bitch because i know he doesnt do certain things because of how bad i get like ive never stopped him doing anything or speaking to anyone and he always says its okay but he knows i get so scared when afemale talks to him he growls if a male talks to me and its really cute. But ive tried everything to stop being so bad with it but im at the point of breaking up with him because it's just too tiring for us both i feel. Im terrified everytime his phone goes off. I feel like im just a toxic prick. I dont want to live in fear anymore.

I'll put this simple for you: he chose you. Not someone else, and girl there are millions of littles in this world. But he chose YOU.

He gave you his heart, his love, his trust. So trust him because he deserves that. If he's loyal to you trust him.

I've seen many relationships break appart because of this topic, jealousy without a reason.

Try to be rational about it (I know is hard but you can do it).