Question for all

[daddy1992]

What's something you love about being part of this community and why? It can be anything down to how you feeling and ect  

[Pupperoo]

Hmm. I like how openminded people are I am trans so this feels very welcoming to me!

[Guest BabyPeach]

I like that I am free to be little me and talk about little me and not be shamed for it. Before I met my former Daddy, I thought I would never be able to even tell anyone my desires (I'd never heard of DDlg) because most people don't understand and are disgusted by this lifestyle. He gently encouraged my little side out and the rest is history. I went online seeking knowledge and ended up here.

[LittleTeacup]

I like being around other people like me.

 

Also, I really love forums and unfortunately many died off in favor of Facebook and now instagram. I'm not very comfortable with the mainstream social media thing. With forums I used to be able to log in when I felt like it and only deal with the one subject (generally a fan thing). I have more privacy on forums. I presume this forum was created to give users more privacy with a sensitive topic like ddlg than talking about it on Facebook (for example).

 

Related to the above: Ah, the forum smilie nostalgia! To all those too young to remember, Apple emojis didn't always exist! We used to have to always use basic emoticons like O:) and :w and XD and there were really complex ones I could never memorize (*edited to use emoticons that won't turn into the smilies). But then on forums we could use these smilies instead - yes, the same style. Some forums had more, like hugging smilies, crying smilies, and flowers. Or even aliens. I love them!    

 

And I love being able to give advice to so many people.

Edited May 17, 2019 by LittleTeacup

[mischief_kitten]

I really like all the information here and how nice everyone is! I also have a fetlife account but am much more hesitant to interact there than here- there’s just a different feeling of community and security on this forum. It just feels very safe!

[PapaGrayWolf]

As a newbie to the forum I'm going to reserve comment until I learn my way around, but so far, so good.  Oh, and not a newbie to the dynamic.  A 30 year vet as a Daddy Dom. 

[ForeverFluffy]

I personally like the support that we all give one another. I love helping people. I have what people call a caring heart. I also love to see other people's points of view and see how different we all can be! It amazes me that people can be so similar yet so different at the same time! And I'm even more amazed at the fact we can all coexist and learn from one another!

[OceanPaintr]

I love the answers about safe space and all that. I really do and me too.

 

But what I really like is that it is a great dating app. OKCupid, Match, and other sites are nice, but they're not great for meeting the kind of women that I really like.

 

I can't go on those sites and ask women my age if they like blankie forts or how many stuffies they have or who their favorite Disney princess is.

 

Instead I get a list of their travel experiences and their degrees and how much they hate cute and pink things.

 

Here is where I can and have found the bestest girls I could ever find

[Guest Daddy-Tom]

I love the answers about safe space and all that. I really do and me too.

 

But what I really like is that it is a great dating app. OKCupid, Match, and other sites are nice, but they're not great for meeting the kind of women that I really like.

 

I can't go on those sites and ask women my age if they like blankie forts or how many stuffies they have or who their favorite Disney princess is.

 

Instead I get a list of their travel experiences and their degrees and how much they hate cute and pink things.

 

Here is where I can and have found the bestest girls I could ever find

Preach. I've been active on Okcupid, Tinder, etc at various times forever and gotten many matches, met many people. But when I started mentioning ddlg on my profiles, boom! No more matches

[LittleGirlEmilia]

My reply is going to be suuuuuper simple >.<
 
This place is my home.

[Little kaiya]

[Maeve]

I'm still new to the site, but I already love it. It seems like a lot of thought and love went into making this site by people who truly wanted to make a safe place for people into the DD/lg lifestyle to come together and be themselves. It's so great seeing the different personalities and perspectives on this site, and it's cool to see how even though we're all into the DD/lg thing, we're not strictly defined by that or forced into acting like there's one "true" way to be a little, a caregiver, or whatever somebody identifies as. We're all just free to be ourselves, and that's really refreshing.

 

I also really appreciate that people can use the site to get what they want out of it - I'm here for friends and discussion, but I find it so cool that there's a designated personals section if you're looking for a partner. Plus, there's the forum aspect and a chat room - how cool is that?! So thank you to all the users who make this site great and all the mods and admin who go above and beyond to keep this site safe, fun, and friendly! I don't mean to gush or be cheesy, I'm just really thankful for this site and the opportunity to be a part of this community.

[LittleEla]

Just a newbie here and Reading and looking around a bit but i have a feeling that everyone here is really Nice ans helpful!

[MadelynVictoria]

I don't have to worry about people judging me lol

[lovebites30019]

I love how honest and open everyone is. That frees me to be myself too! Blankie forts, princess dresses, and all

[lovebites30019]

Preach. I've been active on Okcupid, Tinder, etc at various times forever and gotten many matches, met many people. But when I started mentioning ddlg on my profiles, boom! No more matches

 I was on those sites too. I never mention ddlg on the site. I wait to meet the potential caregiver. I think (and i may be way off) that if your dom/sub is gonna click, you feel it right away. It took a couple weeks for me to get my now daddy to warm up to the role of dd. He still struggles a bit with the emotional side of dominating someone he loves tbh, but we a growing together.