What's a good way to bring up being a little?

[zanderandspike]

otays, so I'm making this post while little so sorry if it's a weee bit confusing

 

so my bro(brother but not blood) is staying up late today and I was alweady in widdle space so I kinda just asked if I could stay in widdle space or if he needed me to be big, but he said it was cool to be Zander so I'm widdle with him rn and I told him we'd need to talk about it watter when I'm big cause our sibling is also in the chat but sleeping rn(it's almost 5 am we maaaaayyyy be up a widdle laaaaate hehe) I weeewly wanna be honest but not freak them out? i just am not sure how to say it, I don't weally know what all I want to says either

 

also they already know about me being widdle, but I's not widdle around them much?

 

also this is all over message so like not in person, I don't have the confidence to be widdle around anyone else yet

 

(spewwing is sooooooooooooo harddddddddddddddddddddd, I no wiky)

[Guest QueenJellybean]

if they already know about you being a little, then maybe you can just explain to them that you happened to be feeling small last night,

so you stayed in little space. 

if you're not comfortable doing it around them again, then don't. 

 

but i'd say being upfront, especially if they already know, is the best approach.

[zanderandspike]

yea, I mean they already know(looking at my post uh wow, what even did I type lmao

 

anyway, they both know, but I never involve someone in kink without concent, and while my little space isn't sexual I feel a little bad about not knowing how the third member in out gc felt(they told me this morning that they we're fine with it and no problems) I think it's more of just me wanting to tell them more? 

 

as of late I've been in little space a lot(buying more stuffies did not help me adult suprise suprise) mostly cause life is too much for me rn, and I guess I fell the need to like warn them that I'll probably be in little space because being in little space is better than being depressed and suicidal? 

 

I just don't wanna force it on them and I'm worried that cause my brother said it was fine our sibling will too, but like its easy enough to no put it in the main chat ya know? so I just really don't wanna force this on others cause that's not ok, but I really like being little and I kinda feel like I really need to be little rn

 

does that make any sence?

[zanderandspike]

 

if they already know about you being a little, then maybe you can just explain to them that you happened to be feeling small last night,

so you stayed in little space. 

if you're not comfortable doing it around them again, then don't. 

 

but i'd say being upfront, especially if they already know, is the best approach.

 

I did ask before I stayed little and he was ok with it, and I feel comfortable around them both with anything, and I'd like to do it more but only if they're ok with it