opinion

[MrDaddydarnit]

I found I can just make a poll an make this a lot easier. haha. 

 

It's a long story so I like this poll option better. 

 

But feel free to post your opinions on the matter here too. 

[Guest Ttul]

I support poly relationships 100000%

[Maids]

I have nothing against poly relationships, but for me personally I cannot bring myself to have more than one Daddy.

I barely listen to one as it is ;P

[DaddyDom3238]

No problem with Poly at all if all parties agree to it

[Little kaiya]

My wife, Daddy and I are in a polyamorous relationship but I would never want more than my Daddy. Just because someone is in a poly relationship that doesnt mean or imply more than one Daddy.

 

Little kaiya

Edited April 19, 2019 by Little kaiya

[MrDaddydarnit]

See? I'm glad I started this topic. I hope people keep giving their opinions. 

 

My opinion is that I'd want to be my little's only daddy, I've been in poly relationships before, but like Kiaya I think it's nicer for me in the relationship to be viewed as the only daddy. 

 

I lean towards monogamy now, but if I was ever in a poly situation again, I feel more comfortable in a closed poly group, usually triads, but I'm not against adding a 4th if a mommy is necessary for my little. 

 

Some littles just like the company. 

 

And I agree poly can solve a lot of insecurities some littles have. It can be a great support network. 

 

But for me, it would have to be closed, and everyone would have to get something out of it. 

 

So because I'm hetero, in my case hypothetically I'd be dating all women who also like women. which was the case when I had my 2 triads. 

 

Poly can also be beneficial to bisexual girls who find men and women meet different needs to them. which was also the case in 1 of my triads. 

 

But a rule I think should be universal for all poly groups is communication is more important in those types of relationships than normal. and we all know communication is very important already. 

 

A rule that actually exists for all poly regardless of opinions is the more people you add to your group the more complicated the relationship, which is something that should be considered before getting into one. 

 

My last ex, tried to keep both me and her ex, and her daddy and me as her ex. which were all the same people. just me and another guy. She was a bundle of confusion, and I tried to deal with it until she figured out her feelings, but I found out he didn't know about me the second time around. 

 

So just remember when being poly, the best thing is to be open and honest with all parties, or people are going to  get hurt. 

[Guest QueenJellybean]

hi! resident polya mod here! i actually wrote an entire resource on polya if anyone is interested in learning more. i didn’t want to comment earlier as i’m not a little, but i felt it necessary to say since the topic is being discussed.

 

i would also like to caution against making sweeping statements like “everyone” and naming things rules, because there’s always going to be people who identify as the exception. no one wrote the rule book on polya, not even if it’s an actual book called “the rules.” one true way-isms are definitely frowned upon here! just things to keep in mind!

 

personally speaking, i think that not having duplicate titles for partners is for sure the best way to go in polya, but i’ve has more than one Caregiver at a time. just used different titles!

[Guest ☠Doobngoobr Hoobgz☠]

I support poly. If all parties are happy with the choices made, go for it. Having been in a closed poly group long ago and far away, it is a wonderful and lasting experience. Poly is not something I generally seek out. In my case, it just sorta happened. But I do believe that communication and trust weigh heavily as they do in all relationships.

[prince eefy]

i wouldn't do it personally (unless a platonic babysitter but idk if that counts) but i support other people who are in poly relationships 100%

[PastelBruises]

Ideal fantasy relationship would be a big poly family so we can have cuddle piles!

[Guest crazycatdaddy]

Polyamory is 100% not my thing. But if everyone knows what they're getting into and consents to that kind of relationship, that's totally okay. I don't think anyone, short of literal puritans, should be going around saying "no one should ever be allowed to have this kind of relationship or that kind of relationship". If a little wants to have several daddies, a daddy wants to have several littles, or if a group of people want to be together that should all be absolutely okay.

 

I would say that I have in the past encountered more than one little who asked me to be their daddy while trying to hide the fact that they had multiple other daddies already. When someone does something like that, it's not really very nice, because as mentioned above the important thing in any relationship is consent, and consent can only come from honesty about the terms of the relationship. I've also spoken with littles in the past who found out that their daddy had other littles at the same time, and again that kind of thing can be very hurtful.

 

But as long as everyone agrees, go for it.

[LittleTeacup]

I'm not sure which option to choose in the poll but I think it's cool if all partners agree.

 

I usually fantasize more about having a mommy and a daddy instead of two or more daddies. I don't wanna be outnumbered  For me, having a woman too would make me feel more comfortable with woman things like periods and stuff. Aside from the fact I think I lean more towards women anyway.

 

But I'm not so opposed that I wouldn't do it if somehow I fell in love with two guys who were ok with it. They just better at least be cool with hugging with me in the middle, ok