Am I being bitter or protective?

[Guest tinytoon0]

I feel that I'm at the point where I'm questioning if I even want a Daddy. I've encountered so many fakes and "doms" who talk big about safety and respect.. only to be the exact same. I'm sure there are daddies out there that are perfect but I dont see the point in trying. My little space is my most vulnerable and I cant let little/middle me be hurt. However, is this just me being bitter or is this sound judgement?

[DaddyRaven]

I think it's always good to be protective of yourself.  Unfortunately, there are a lot of "daddy" doms out there who use the name just to try to get into the pants of a girl or boy for that matter.  I really think it's important to get to know the person as a person for a w hile before going into the dynamics that ddlg brings with it.  That way you get to know each other's habits, likes and dislikes as adults and then slowly work your way into learning about each other as daddy/lg dynamic if that makes sense.  

[Guest DaddyDN]

I feel that I'm at the point where I'm questioning if I even want a Daddy. I've encountered so many fakes and "doms" who talk big about safety and respect.. only to be the exact same. I'm sure there are daddies out there that are perfect but I dont see the point in trying. My little space is my most vulnerable and I cant let little/middle me be hurt. However, is this just me being bitter or is this sound judgement?

Protective. Fearful, Careful all reasonable feelings

Edited April 17, 2019 by DaddyDN

[Guest LittleSnowiii]

I feel that I'm at the point where I'm questioning if I even want a Daddy. I've encountered so many fakes and "doms" who talk big about safety and respect.. only to be the exact same. I'm sure there are daddies out there that are perfect but I dont see the point in trying. My little space is my most vulnerable and I cant let little/middle me be hurt. However, is this just me being bitter or is this sound judgement?

I would say none. Is simply you being sensitive , which is normal considering you've been hurt.

This is also tells me that maybe you're not exactly ready to get with a new daddy? Just give yourself time, dedicate love and time to yourself. One day if you feel like trying again, then do it.

I also recommend to become friends with your future daddy first, instead of jumping into romance. That way helps to truly know the person.

[Guest tinytoon0]

I guess its for the best that I focus on me then ^-^