Naughty Little Shopping

[Daddy - DJ]

So me and my little went shopping last night. I was there as a guide to tell her no on things that she really didn't need because she said she has a problem when it comes to shopping where she will buy a bunch of stuff she doesn't need and overspend money on junk. I agreed and thought this would be a good bonding time as well.

 

I learned really quickly that my little has no modesty in public and really knows how to embarrass me if she really wanted to. This was really entertaining and partially my fault since I do know certain things I do that turn her on.

 

It started before we got in the store when i grabbed her by the back of the neck and told her I have control while we are in here, Knowing very well that she loves this and turns her on. I didn't expect it to escalate as far as it did though heh. 

 

So we got in the store and it started off innocently looking around. Then we got to an isle where there was something she wanted and I again grabbed the back of her neck and told her no. This happened a couple times but each time got more and more intense when she started grabbing my ass and at one point almost said very loudly "But Daddy I really want the sausage" yes... it had gotten to the point that I had turned a bright shade of red but every time she tried saying that really loudly i stopped her. 

 

I almost wonder if anyone actually saw our interactions with each other because I'm curious as to what they would think was going on. It was all in good fun for us but from the outside looking in I could see someone thinking "Is he abusing her?" 

 

So lesson learned, if I ever want to cause a scene in public with my little, i know how to do so. We got a big kick out of the whole thing and ending up cuddling after and having a good talk but be wary about how far your little is willing to take things in public and be prepared for what might come out and hope you can explain yourselves if someone does come and ask lol

 

Have a great day everyone!!

 

[Guest crazycatdaddy]

I hate to be negative when someone's having fun, but please be careful what you do in public. Other people aren't consenting participants and if you and/or your partner are deliberately weirding people out to see their reactions, or using the disapproval or reactions of members of the public as part of your kink, that's not really a very nice thing to do.

 

Not only that, but it can reflect badly on the wider CG/L community. If someone called the police because they thought you were being abusive, you could wind up having to explain yourself to a police officer or god forbid get into the local newspapers. We're already in a difficult position as members of this community when it comes to wider society understanding what CG/L is and isn't about. If we start generating negative publicity because of the actions of a few people, it could make it even harder for people to participate in the community.

 

I'm not saying don't have fun, but when you're in public please just remember that there's fun and there's inappropriate and if in doubt, don't do it. Stay on the right side of the line and that way CG/L can continue to be fun, enjoyable, and safe for everyone.

[Daddy - DJ]

I was being very careful with who was around. It was also late at night when the store was pretty much empty.

 

I wasnt trying to cause a scene which is why when she tried doing something I stopped it right away. I have also since had a talk about it to her.

 

I dont plan on doing anything crazy in public.

 

The way I typed it sounds like it got out of hand but there was full control. I wouldn't do anything to hurt the community

[Guest crazycatdaddy]

I apologise if I came across as bossy or aggressive there! I'm glad that you two are having fun in a way that doesn't go too far in public. It actually sounds like you two have great communication and a really fun relationship! 

[Daddy - DJ]

Its ok, i may have came off in my first post as if we didn't have good boundaries and thats on me so i apologize there. My little can be a little hard to handle and she will push the limits like the little brat she is but i'm learning the ways to keep it down especially in public.

 

She is a very sexual little and honestly it doesn't take a lot for me to trigger something, not because i'm trying to its just how she is. 

 

Our communication is getting better. I've learned something new this past week that i didn't know about her and when she needs a little more attention from me  and now that i know i can grow on that. I also learned that she knows how to embarrass the shit out of me if she really wanted to.

 

I wish everyone could have a fun and I wish the community wouldn't be looked so hard upon by the outside but this is our society we live in.