Daddies, what gift do you want from your little?

[Gingerbread]

So my daddy and i need to have sudden break up bcs of circumstances. And my daddy alr asked something as a gift that he can keep, like keychain or something. But i feel like keychain would be too less worthy bcs my social status with daddy be like heaven and hell (this is my own insecurity, i acknowledge that, but well... )

So actually i alr made a keychain figurine by myself but I'm afraid if it is too worthless for my daddy But at the same time i don't think i can afford something on his taste So can i get an advice and/or suggestion? Thank you in advance, I'll appreciate your efforts even only for reading this. Have a great day ahead!

[Tisiphone_Ladon]

I’m sorry to hear of your breakup, it’s always hard to go through a breakup of any kind, so I hope you’re doing ok. I think you’re keychain idea was a good one, your giving him something you made yourself and it makes it all that much more special.

[Guest crazycatdaddy]

Based on what you've said it doesn't exactly sound like breaking up would be your preference. Any break up is sad and hurts, and it'll take time for you to move past it. But I hope you know you're under no obligation to get him a present. Gifts are great fun, and personally I love giving gifts to friends and family, and to someone I'm in a relationship with. But a gift should never feel like an obligation, and while it's fine to say to someone you're breaking up with that they can keep any gifts you've already given them, I have to confess I'm more than a little confused as to why you'd spend a lot of time and money to give a gift to someone who broke up with you. Just because you used to be together and he asked you for something doesn't mean you have to do it. If this is the end and you won't see each other again or talk to each other again, instead of spending that time making and/or buying something for him, spend that time and money on yourself, do something nice for you or get yourself a treat. I guess the other concern is that maybe there's some small part of you, a little voice in the back of your mind saying "if he likes the present maybe he'll stay". I'm speculating here and I don't know you so that might not be the case, but if it is, a clean break is what you need. You are not worthless, and you do not need to please him, or anyone else.

[Guest Urthurs]

 my daddy alr asked something as a gift that he can keep, like keychain or something.

So actually i alr made a keychain figurine by myself but I'm afraid if it is too worthless for my daddy

If it was too worthless, then why would he ask for it?

[Daddy - DJ]

My little gave me some nuts she found at work (hardware for bolts) it wasn't expensive, it wasn't fancy, it was silly but it was from her. I put them on a string and wear them now. I feel that any gift from your little is special and meaningful because its from them and they put their heart into it.

[LittleTeacup]

Obviously I'm not a daddy, but

 

Something you make yourself is worth more than diamonds because it has your heart in it.

[Gingerbread]

@tisiphone : thank you v much for your opinion and support!

 

@crazycatdaddy : well, indeed breakup is not my preference. We have planned a lot of stuff but universe just want a plot twist instead. And about the little voice, no i don't have any intention and hope that he will stay through the gift. I do want him to stay or at least be responsible with his words, but circumstances give me no other choice but to understand him. Altho i don't until now lol. But anw, thank you for the supporting words, i appreciate it v much. I'll try my best to take care of myself as u said, to divert my attention from the sadness and pain ehe. Thank u!

 

@urthurs : um....right, now that u mentioned it. Thank you!

 

@daddy-dj : ooh that's so sweet of you thank u for the supportive story! Another reason i should be confident to just give the handmade figurine!

 

@littleteacup : yes, i put my heart a lot while making it thank you for the words!