Selfish in little space

[zanderandspike]

I feel really selfish if I go into little space, like I don't even have to have a cg around it just makes me feel guilty like I'm asking too much of someone. Does anyone else feel like this? I feel like it's not fair of me to just take take take, and that's all I really do as a little? I'm not sure, it could be cause I'm pretty new to this, I just feel really selfish if I'm in little space.

 

It's not that I'm trying to take, I like coloring for my cg(s) I like playing with them, I just feel bad about being a little...

 

I've tried looking all over the site but I'm have trouble finding what I'm looking for but if anyone has and links that would be great!

[Little.Pet.Kate]

I feel the same way sometimes. I don't have any links or anything but know being needy and selfish when in little space is normal.

 

There was a post I saw about this same thing but I don't remember where it was from. But the cg had said "Don't you ever think I need you to be needy and selfish. Daddy needs to be needed." 

 

So I think that it's completely normal to be like that. After all, wouldn't actual toddlers and small children be needy? 

 

Chin up. 

[zanderandspike]

I feel the same way sometimes. I don't have any links or anything but know being needy and selfish when in little space is normal.

 

There was a post I saw about this same thing but I don't remember where it was from. But the cg had said "Don't you ever think I need you to be needy and selfish. Daddy needs to be needed." 

 

So I think that it's completely normal to be like that. After all, wouldn't actual toddlers and small children be needy? 

 

Chin up. 

ah thanks! I never feel like that as a cg myself, just as a little...

[Little kaiya]

I've had discussions with my Daddy about sometimes feeling too clingy or needy when I'm little. I cant say that I've ever felt selfish but there have been times where I've thought that perhaps I get more from my Daddy than he gets from me.

 

Daddy quickly put that concern to rest and not only told me but has shown me that he loves when I'm needy. It makes him feel warm, needed, important and special that I love him enough to be vulnerable and clingy with him.

 

I've been able to put any doubts or concerns to bed through open and honest conversations with my Daddy. I guess a lot depends on the little, caregiver (if there is one) and the relationship.

 

Little kaiya