Daddy - DJ Posted March 31, 2019 Report Posted March 31, 2019 Hello, so I'm new to the Daddy role but I somehow as my friend put it. "Smoothly slid into the role" Me and my little have so far had some really good talks about what we both expect and require. We have been open and honest with each other about our past and so far everything is going great. She still said it will be hard to trust me 100% because of her past but so far she said her trust in me has grown. I'm happy to take things slow and ease into it. I've set some rules *more for me* of things that will never happen until she makes the first step. I'm very happy with her and things are good. If anyone has any advice for a new Daddy I am always open to listen. I plan to grow into my Daddy role and get better the more our relationship goes. Today we went out and had a fun day at the mall and the park. Because of how things have been going and how good she has been I got her some gifts which she loved very much but wasnt too happy with me spending money on her. I told her that I wanted to because I was proud of her and she deserved it. I dont plan on spoiling her like that often but I wanted to do something extra special early on to show her I care.
Guest Aetherr Posted March 31, 2019 Report Posted March 31, 2019 take it slow, respect her boundaries, talk to her and make sure you talk to her about your feelings as well as being attentive to her, also if she trusts you dont take that for granted if she feels safe with you then never make her feel unsafe its possible to gain the trust of a hurt and broken person possibly once if even that but that person wont let you in again if they learned anything you sound like you are doing great just dont forget you have needs too but consider her feelings when mentioning that
Daddy - DJ Posted March 31, 2019 Author Report Posted March 31, 2019 I'm taking it slow. I'm making sure I'm very open about my entire past so nothing will come up and surprise her. Communication is the key thing I tell her. That's what ruined past relationships for me.
Guest ~*~Sachita~*~ Posted March 31, 2019 Report Posted March 31, 2019 General advice for new daddys: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/51-general-advice-for-new-daddies/
Daddy - DJ Posted March 31, 2019 Author Report Posted March 31, 2019 On 3/31/2019 at 2:11 AM, Sachita said: General advice for new daddys: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/51-general-advice-for-new-daddies/ Thank you. I've been doing a lot of reading since I have gotten into my relationship. I'm out to be the best I can be. I learned early on she called me Soft Daddy before we actually committed to anything which i'm ok with, my biggest challenge will be to be more firm with her when it's needed but that's something I am working on. I made her really happy the other day when I did get firm with her for the first time and to see her eyes light up when I made my role clear made me so happy. I've heard a lot of good things from her friends that she has been a lot happier since the start of our relationship.
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