Food for thought and Cheese for breakfast

[ktownDaddy]

Hello and thank you for stopping by for a read.

 

I was reading old profile posts and found this - it was written two years ago. My goodness how time flies.

 

Here Goes !

 

There is no particular message here, request for companionship or other wise. I was simply bored and thought I would take a few minutes to scribe down some thoughts and see were this monologue takes me.

 

It's funny ( not really funny - a little sad when you think about it) how quickly the days and minutes can pass when you are "BIG" with a job and responsibilities. You put your head down, start working on anothet project and before you know it another year is gone. (In this case two)

 

It's not too often that I get a full day off to myslef. Today, instead of pulling out my laptop and doing paper work I thought I would drop in here. It's in here that I find that sabbatical from the real world and the ability to let go of that side of my personality, I keep so carefully hidden.

 

I am not ashamed who I am - I like being a Daddy, I just think the Vanilla world doesn't quite understands what it is. I still think there is an adverse stigma that is attached to it. I think FSOG (50 shades) brought dominance to the main stream ( though in a pathetic and terribly disappointing way) and in turn one day the DDlg relationship will also come out of the shadows and be also be accepted. It's disappointing that so many look at it as some weird kinky sexual thing. To be honest, I think it's the most caring and close relationship you can have. It's not all about the sexual aspects and interactions.

 

I am a Daddy to many if the women in my life, in the work place and to many of those with whom I interact with. They perceive it as kindness, tenderness, mentorship and thoughtfulness. I think really that's what a Daddy is; kind mentor, guiding hand, a voice of wisdom, boost of confidence. I truly believe that in ever women there is a little girl.

 

The difficult part is overstepping that acceptable level of boundaries. I mean it's just not acceptable to hug everyone and give them kisses on the forehead. That said I am sure the world would be a happier place.

 

So I come here to get my little girl fix. It also allows me to explore,read and understand what makes little girls tick. What they experience and how to be a better Daddy. I think it also allows me to notice traits of personality and to be able to spot those littles when they are out in public. It's a rough life living on the road and when you get the chance to engage and chat with a little/middle - it can be a high point in your week.

 

I am always attracted to littles/middles but as a mature professional male you have to be exeptionally careful that you are not tagged as creepy or predatory when approaching a chatting witha young women half your age. It's unfortunate that younger littles are easier to spot than mature middles, they have typically found ways to hide their little sides.

 

It would be nice to go out and see a few random T-shirts on women that read " yes I am little" - life would be so much simpler.....lol.

 

I suppose I could wear a T-shirt that said " Yes - I am a Daddy" though I don't see it having the same possitive effect.

 

So, I find myself here, sending messages and chatting with people who share the same interests I do.

 

That's it for me - like I said nothing insightful of life changing, just random thoughts. If anything here has inspired your thoughts message me back.

 

I would love to hear from you.

 

KT.

[Lollipox]

I’m confused. You found this and reposted it instead of bumping it? Or?

Such confuse, much beffudled.

[ktownDaddy]

I wrote it quite sometime ago and changed a few sentences to make it time appropriate.

 

It still rings true today.

 

KT.

[LittleTeacup]

If you wore a t-shirt that said "yes - I am a daddy", my guess would be that everyone would assume it means you have a child.

 

I actually hide my little traits less now than I used to. I'd rather be myself than pretend to be someone else. Now, that doesn't mean I let people see everything (like hopping around or eating with my hands) but I'm sure a careful observer could easily tell I'm little. But I talk to myself quietly, stomp my feet when frustrated, like wearing hair bows, sometimes put my hair in pigtails (especially at festivals/carnivals), get excited about ice cream, etc. I feel like I'm obvious anyway.

 

I also prefer large pockets to purses, but unfortunately this is almost impossible to accomplish. My purse is cute though.

[ktownDaddy]

If you wore a t-shirt that said "yes - I am a daddy", my guess would be that everyone would assume it means you have a child.

 

I actually hide my little traits less now than I used to. I'd rather be myself than pretend to be someone else. Now, that doesn't mean I let people see everything (like hopping around or eating with my hands) but I'm sure a careful observer could easily tell I'm little. But I talk to myself quietly, stomp my feet when frustrated, like wearing hair bows, sometimes put my hair in pigtails (especially at festivals/carnivals), get excited about ice cream, etc. I feel like I'm obvious anyway.

 

I also prefer large pockets to purses, but unfortunately this is almost impossible to accomplish. My purse is cute though.

 

Hello Little Teacup.

 

Thank you for taking the time to write back. I was thinking of maybe a T-shirt thats says "I am Bad Daddy " but then I would be earmarked as a terrible parent...lol.

 

I think there are many identifying features that can be picked up on if you know what you are looking for. What you said about children being 100% themselves rings very true.Though as each decade passes we loose more and more of that juvenile side.

 

As a Daddy, I think thats sad and I certainly encourage it when I see it as I belive little girls like compliments. There is a very fine line between being percieved as being complimentary and being percieved as being creepy. I am never in anyway sexual in any of my comments but have on occasion gotten a few weird looks.

 

That could be from the individual the compliments are being paid to or people standing by.

 

I think sometimes little girls dont know they are little girls and though they appreciate a compliment they are not sure how to react to it. Hopefully that makes some sense.

 

Kt.