why am I not getting any replies on my personal post

[Disneyboy90]

 I don't think you're allowed to make a new ad after deleting one.

Oh i think i read somewhere on the site about that and I don't think you can either

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Oh i think i read somewhere on the site about that and I don't think you can either

It's in the rules.

 

"Multiple personal ads are not allowed; if changes are needed you can edit or bump your original ad. New ads will be considered duplicates and will be deleted."

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/33419-community-rules-and-guidelines/

 

New personals will be removed. You can edit the one you have up now.

[Disneyboy90]

It's in the rules.

 

"Multiple personal ads are not allowed; if changes are needed you can edit or bump your original ad. New ads will be considered duplicates and will be deleted."

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/33419-community-rules-and-guidelines/

 

New personals will be removed. You can edit the one you have up now.

okay gotcha thank you for that and yeah I got in trouble about a new post for 2nd time with a warning but not sure why I got in trouble the 1st on here:/

[LittleGirlEmilia]

okay gotcha thank you for that and yeah I got in trouble about a new post for 2nd time with a warning but not sure why I got in trouble the 1st on here:/

Contact myself or another member of staff if you're unsure about warnings. If it's an actual warning point, you can view it yourself.

[Disneyboy90]

Contact myself or another member of staff if you're unsure about warnings. If it's an actual warning point, you can view it yourself.

okay gotcha and understand

[Guest Fleur-Angelique]

late ad on - but personally ive experienced a lot of people who dont reply to mine but instead drop me a friendrequest or even search me on fetlife to write to me. oddly a lot of them dont know you're supposed to reply to the topic :/ so that might also be a factor!

[Disneyboy90]

Hello everyone

I just would like to say thank you for all the advise I was given about my personal post and what all I needed to do to fix it and rework my post as well. I would like say that I have taken all the advise and reworked my personal ad and re-fixed it and put in a lot of what was asked of me to put into my personal ad so I hope when I bump my ad that I will possibly get more responses to it and that people will like my new personal ad.

[MommySophia]

My biggest piece of advice as I have watched this thread unfold is this:

Stop making this a priority in your life. It seems like getting responses or, at it's core, getting a CG is vital for you right now. And if you were to find someone, well, you run the risk of not being happy. You need to start learning to love and live on your own so the CG is an *addition* not a *necessity* in your life.

Having a CG will not fix any anxiety or sadness or anything negative you may have, having the correct CG will. And so, even if you get responses, go slow and appreciate who you are, your identity and what you are worth. Otherwise you'll still feel empty if you just jump into the first person who responds.

I suggest stop making this a big deal and start focusing on giving yourself the love you need first. Thats just my opinion as a CG and from reading this thread.

[Disneyboy90]

If their is anything I need to add to my post please let me know and I will make more changes to it and add things as well to my post so it can be looked at more and hopefully get more attention for caregivers to see and hopefully be interested in me as a baby boy.