Long Distant Dd/Lg activities

[AnotherNerdWithGlasses]

So on Friday the Daddy I have been talking to non-stop for two Weeks officially asked me to be his Little >///<

He is very patient with me and I adore him! This relationship is long distance however, so I would like to ask what type of activities and ideas do others have when it comes to this kind of thing?

We're both new to long distance and I'm even more new to dd/lg

Thank you!

[Guest kittycandy's Daddy]

KittyCandy and I are long distance, we skype nearly ever day doing all sorts of thing. 

Movies together is one of the most obvious, though it certainly is a really great activity to do; we get blankets and popcorn.

Today I used Teamviewer to access her PC and scrolled through tumblr with her, then we played some Portal with me doing keyboard input and her using the mouse.
Bed time stories, arts and craft, even just sitting there and talking while the other does their own thing. Sometimes I even bring my laptop to the kitchen and make dinner with her placed opposite me on the table top. 

Just think of anything you'd like and how you'd connect that activity with them. Even sending letters back and forth. 

[Kitten Cupcake]

Reading stories is good

Having a diary of sorts (both ways is really great)

daily texts

perhaps drawing something for your s/o

writing out a scene you'd like with your s/o (doesn't have to be sexual)

(+everything KCD said)

[Guest thatlittlerebella]

My Daddy and I did the long distance thing for about a year and a half until I moved to be with him. Besides having Skype or Facetime dates, constantly texting one another, talking before bed every night and visits whenever we could- we mailed each other care packages. Some of them included candy, cute notes, movies and stuff like that. One time Daddy sent me a shirt that smelled of him and a stuffie that had his cologne on. I sent him arts and crafts projects, a coupon book full of stuff that he could redeem when we were together (like extra cuddle time, a massage and stuff like that) and stuff that smelled like me too. It really helped when we couldn't physically be with each other. I also kept a blog that he'd give me writing assignments for and he'd get the email updates. That really helped when my depression was getting pretty bad. It helped me focus on something and helped to bring back some of my creativity and inspiration. 

 

Just remember distance isn't a death sentence. There are tons of ways to stay connected nowadays, use them to your advantage! :] 

[MrBonesWildRide]

My Daddy and I did the long distance thing for about a year and a half until I moved to be with him. Besides having Skype or Facetime dates, constantly texting one another, talking before bed every night and visits whenever we could- we mailed each other care packages. Some of them included candy, cute notes, movies and stuff like that. One time Daddy sent me a shirt that smelled of him and a stuffie that had his cologne on. I sent him arts and crafts projects, a coupon book full of stuff that he could redeem when we were together (like extra cuddle time, a massage and stuff like that) and stuff that smelled like me too. It really helped when we couldn't physically be with each other. I also kept a blog that he'd give me writing assignments for and he'd get the email updates. That really helped when my depression was getting pretty bad. It helped me focus on something and helped to bring back some of my creativity and inspiration. 

 

Just remember distance isn't a death sentence. There are tons of ways to stay connected nowadays, use them to your advantage! :] 

 

Pretty much the big summary is right here.

 

I've become a "master" of long distance, whereas all of my relationships have begun as long distance and my most recent two (besides Tori) have moved into real life ones.

 

Skype dates are the biggest thing for a long distance relationship to function. You have to think of a skype date like you would a regular date. Devote your attention to your partner during this time because this is the bread and butter of the relationship. I like to read bedtime stories, have playtime, watch movies, play video games, drawing/coloring, etc through skype so that there's a reaction to the events that are going on. I like to try to make it so that if there's something going on that we're sharing, that we're also skyping so that it makes it feel even more so like a date.

 

If you're into video games, playing games together is a bond builder because of the sheer amount of multiplayer games that exist. I can't even start a list because there's just so many out there that can be played.

 

Care packages are huge. They can be small things (trinkets that make you think of them) or even bigger things like personal shirts, toys, etc. These type of things are basically the "small gifts" aspect of the relationship.

 

Long distance is definitely a struggle. There's a lot of effort that goes into it because there's no physical contact during long distance. But thankfully it's not as if we don't have our own ways of constantly keeping in contact with one another.

[CaptainsKitten]

my Master and I have been in a long distance relationship for 3+ years and even before getting into ddlg (or bdsm at all for that matter) we constantly text or call and Skype as often as we can. we love going online and playing video games together and sometimes in a Skype cal we share screens just to see what the other is doing because we get bored lol

but ever since starting this lifestyle (that we've only been in for a couple months) he'll have me randomly send pictures or sometimes I take videos and he gives me rules to go by and I have to tell him when I do them (such as drinking plenty of water or brushing my teeth ect. just Daddy type things)

but another thing I like to do is whenever I see a new thing I wanna try with him, I send it to him and we agree to try it out next time we're together (which right now is looking to be in July ^~^ I can't wait!!) 

 

but yeah, those are just some things we do, y'all should talk it out and see what you both might want to do to make the distance a little easier. and if you want someone to talk to about it, feel free to send me a message I love talking to other long distance couples

[Guest curious-babydoll]

1. Build a ginger bread house together

2. Cook together

3. Watch something together

4. Draw how we see the other person

5. Read to each other

6. Bake together

7. Online window shop together

8. Document achievements

9. Send care packages (and open them together on camera)

10. Surprises

11. Multiplayer games online

12. Join a virtual world

13. Email time capsule (http://www.futureme.org/)

14. Truth or Dare

15. Improv games

16. Virtual Hugs (http://www.onlinehugs.com/couples.htm)

17. Find a ringtone for one an other

18. House tour

19. Go through memory boxes

20. Write each other a letter on the same day each month and mail it

21. Watch a concert together

22. Send each other our sent (cologne/perfume/whatever put on pieces of felt and mail it- or send a small bottle)

23. Adopt a virtual pet

24. Make keepsake boxes

25. Send a message in a bottle

26. Clone yourself*(NSFW)

27. Madlibs

28. Virtual haunted house

29. Date-in-a-box

30. Carve initials into a virtual tree

31. Coffee shop webcam date

32. Design a dream house together

32. Learn each other's personality types

33. Play video games

34. Virtual tour of each others neighborhood

35. Try and find each other on omgle

36. Find recipes online to try

37. Screen share and go through old files

38. Play a board game

39. Round rover

40. Start a blog together

41. Dollar store scavenger hunt

42. Model and photo shoot

43. Play with shelter cats online

44. Accent Challenge

45. Take quizzes online

46. Read the same book and discuss it

47. Save up and surprise each other with a nice surprise gift

48. Grow something together

49. Build puzzles

50. Dress up really nice and eat dinner together (maybe both of us take out from the same place too)