I feel like my daddy doesn't really care???

[babynymph]

So hello I'm new to the forum!! So basically, when I'm with my daddy, (we don't live together but we want to move in together) I feel like when I'm with him, he always wants playtime, but when I tell him I'm sore or that I need time to rest he gets sad. when I say I need little space he thinks I'm being stubborn about it, and I was in an abusive relationship a while back and sometimes I get moments where I just need to talk and he doesn't "like to hear about it" so I feel like I have to keep to myself. I know this post is all over the place and I'm sorry but I don't know I feel a little left out because I hear about his issues a lot, and I don't shut him down. 

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

From what you've written, it seems like your "Daddy" isn't really a Daddy. If he's not willing to listen to your needs and desires then I don't think he's being genuine. It seems as though he only wants you for his sexual desires. Please be safe & follow your intuition.

[Guest dai_bach]

I'm really sorry, but I agree with Pouty Kitten.. your Daddy should be there for emotional support as well as for HIS physical needs.

 

Follow your heart and be true to yourself!

 

Good luck xx

[Guest LittleAnna]

Welcome to the forum!

And i also agree with what pouty kitten said, a daddy is a caregiver who takes care of his little physically and mentally.

if he is just after his desires then im sorry to say tht doesnt make him a daddy.

 

Good Luck

[Cigna]

Your decision is your decision, but I stand by the feeling that you should only ever be in a relationship that you're happy with. If your SO won't discuss an issue with you, or isnt attentive to your emotional needs, then maybe it's time to consider other options.

I wish ya luck, and here's hoping it all works out for ya--

[Sophie]

It sounds like he's not familiar with the DDlg dynamic and what's expected of him as a Daddy.

 

Maybe you can politely suggest to him to read up more about what a Daddy Dom actually is...

[Guest LaidBackDaddy]

^this

 

He may very well care for you but may be holding on too much to selfish behaviors. A daddy is suppose to do those things, not because he has to to get his physical needs met, but because he is a caregiver and wants to do it. Approach him and tell him what you need and want. Stand up for your self, don't be denyed because that is the whole point of this dynamic, for the Little to get those things from her/his CG.

 

If he wants to learn to do better, encourage him to learn and ask questions.

 

Good luck, and very awesome face paint!

[Lisa]

From what you have shared, I feel like your daddy doesn't really care either. Do you want to be with a daddy that doesn't care? If, not...

[Alfadaddy]

So sad to hear once again ''it looks like most people just want a submissive slave to play with but thats not what ddlg is about neither being a daddy is , on the contrairry ,, if you dont care about your little or just want a toy people need to elshewhere thats my opinion ,, littles need to be loved ,spoiled,,cuddled,,and so much more ''the rest is realtive''not inportant its there too yes but not inportant ,, ☺

[babynymph]

So I have recently talked to him and he told me he'd read up on it and maybe even join the forum but he apologised, I've tried to educate him on being a dom but it's difficult because I've been a sub in other relationships but he seems to be a lot more, how can I say this open to listening and just watching movies and hanging out and he's giving me little space and he asks me if I ever need to talk and always reassures me that he's there. So I feel like things are getting a little better I just needed to speak up a lot but thank you so much for your input you guys! <3

[DeathMetalDaddy]

It seems things are getting better for you, I'm glad to hear it. Perhaps he just needed to be made more aware of what was expected of him. 

[babynymph]

Yes! we had a talk before I left and it seems to be all understood