Is there any DD married his LG/BG?

[stitchyteddybear]

I'm wondering what their life would be like with daily activities, work, and maybe kids too

[Guest LittleAnna]

i also had that Q going on my mind from time to time.

[Daddys__kitten]

I'm engaged to my daddy and we are getting married next summer. I have one kid and he has 3. Anything specific you guys want to know?

[Guest buddhagirl]

Daddy and I are married and have four kids (both brought 2 to the marriage), ages 6-17. We're one big, happy family. AND he's my Daddy and I'm his little girl. Our life looks like a regular life. Most married or partnered people have a sex life, and what that looks like varies from couple to couple. Ours is DDlg. And that dynamic is a part of our daily life, too, but not that outside people would notice. I defer to Daddy a lot on decisions, I follow my rules all of the time (well, I try!), I show him respect at all times and he is always affectionate and adoring, and he can see when I'm distressed or need him and is able use facial expressions and body language to support me immediately and then makes private time as soon as possible to check in with me. We have been able to really integrate our DDlg into our life all the time without people knowing because he and I know each other so well. I call him Daddy when we're alone and with the kids, but the kids think nothing of it because they think I'm doing it for them. Hell, my grandmother called my grandfather Daddy and no one thought anything of it--they had 5 kids together. And I don't care if people think I'm odd for coloring or taking my stuffie on the plane when I sit by Daddy. I think that people easily overlook these little things when you are a kind, successful, confident woman that also happens to be adorable. Having a daddy as a life partner is wonderful, but complicated and requires more balance than a relationship just based on DDlg. I fell in love with Daddy because of who he is - kind, wise, passionate, loving, gentle and dominant - and the DDlg came later. If it hadn't happened like that, I think it would have been a lot harder to maintain over time and integrate into a family life.

[Guest Rainbow]

very well said buddha girl!

[JohnApple]

Aww, that makes me very happy to hear buddhagirl!

 

Personally, it's always been a dream of mine to marry my little! I don't like kids though, and have no desire to have any (which makes it kind of tough, because I feel like it's very hard finding someone who is set on not wanting kids). I hope it doesn't sound prude or anything of the sort, but I want my little/wife to be my only kid, the only person I have to take care of.

 

I can't wait for the day I get to propose to my little with a Ringpop!

[Guest Penny]

Just so you know johnapple there are plenty of people, PLENTY who do not want kids of their own and that's okay.

 

I used to think I was messed up for never wanting them, but its a huge decision and it's not for everyone I think.

[stitchyteddybear]

I'm engaged to my daddy and we are getting married next summer. I have one kid and he has 3. Anything specific you guys want to know?

Yes.. how does it different to "regular" relationship, and what are the problems that both of you have being in a serious ddlg relationship?

[stitchyteddybear]

 

Having a daddy as a life partner is wonderful, but complicated and requires more balance than a relationship just based on DDlg.

How is it complicated and why does it needs more balance? Also, balance of what?

[Guest buddhagirl]

It's complicated and requires more balance because it is a very important part of our life that we need to consciously take care or, while also hiding it from everyone around us. It's complicated because Daddy can't always punish me right when he wants to, but has to find time and space to do so. It's challenging to find the balance between our DDlg dynamic and juggling kids and jobs and a house and friends, etc. The up side is that it does require a lot of attention and care, so we're putting the effort in and, therefore, have a very strong, loving relationship. Hope this helps.

[stitchyteddybear]

It's complicated and requires more balance because it is a very important part of our life that we need to consciously take care or, while also hiding it from everyone around us. It's complicated because Daddy can't always punish me right when he wants to, but has to find time and space to do so. It's challenging to find the balance between our DDlg dynamic and juggling kids and jobs and a house and friends, etc. The up side is that it does require a lot of attention and care, so we're putting the effort in and, therefore, have a very strong, loving relationship. Hope this helps.

That sounds like a dream marriage to me xD

You're sooo lucky!

I think the hiding it from everyone else kinda add a little more excitement to it

[Guest DaddyBeast1980]

[missmouse]

Im not married to my Daddy but we live like we are and we have a two year old together. It doesnt complicate things much, but we are willing to leave DDlg space when circumstances require.

 

My son prefers me in little mode to mommy mode. That makes it a lot easier

[LittleAki]

I'm married to my DD, and for us, it's no different than before we found DD/lg. about the only difference is if I'm due a soanking for bad behavior...those have to wait until the little one goes to bed...which in a way makes them worse cause I can sometimes have hours between being told "you're getting a spanking" and the actual act.

 

All in all though, for us, it makes us work that much harder on the marriage because so much rests on the dynamic. I can't be little if I'm scared, and Daddy can't be Daddy if he's mad. So we work constantly to improve our communications, our trust, and ourselves.

[Daddys__kitten]

Yes.. how does it different to "regular" relationship, and what are the problems that both of you have being in a serious ddlg relationship?

We have never had an regular relationship. First we just fucked, then D/s and that morfed into dd/lg. I asked him your question and he said that he didn't have any problems at all, the daddy side of him comes easily and is easy to integrate in familylife. I, on the other hand, find it quite difficult, and thats mostly because I'm home with the kids and renovating the house (i have increased the value of the house with about $50000 in 9months). I don't take parenting lightly, and as long as the kids are with me I can't fully relax. I don't mean that I worry or things like that or that I don't like parenting, I love it more than anything, it's just that it's, with the houserenovation, a pretty heavy burden on my shoulders. And that feeling of responsibility takes away my feeling of littleness. Or my opportunities of being little, since it's so little time for that.

I think everything will be easier when the house is done, and the kids are a bit older.

Did anything of this make sense? I'm sick and took some painkillers, and now my brain feel like mush

[Little Mouse]

i have been with daddy for 9 years now... we have no children and do everything together... we love being with each other...

[Little Mouse]

I agree if u know u don't want kids then u just know and that's your feelings.... I had kids, but later realized I couldn't raise them so let them be adopted...

my life seems a lot easier for me now...

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

We are not married yet but it's our set plan. This is a full, committed, lifetime relationship with many layers. Not just dd/lg, although it's a huge part of us. We both have kids and will not have more together. We have four between us.

For all intents and purposes thus is a "normal" relationship. He is my daddy, my soulmate, my love, my owner, my master, my best friend, my life partner. And one day he also is going to be my husband.

[Guest buddhagirl]

We are not married yet but it's our set plan. This is a full, committed, lifetime relationship with many layers. Not just dd/lg, although it's a huge part of us. We both have kids and will not have more together. We have four between us.

For all intents and purposes thus is a "normal" relationship. He is my daddy, my soulmate, my love, my owner, my master, my best friend, my life partner. And one day he also is going to be my husband.

 

MyDaddyMyWorld, it sounds like we have A LOT in common! Just sent you a friend request. 

[The Perennial Princess]

I am not married to my papa bear but we plan on being married within the next three years. (And I plan on having a carousel wedding baby cake.) We also plan on having children eventually. As others have mentioned, DDLG is a complex relationship that intertwines many aspects of two individuals. I don't really see how it's any different for a papa to marry his baby than for a boyfriend to marry his girlfrield. If anything, it's more prevalent given the level of trust and committment that such a union typically embodies. My papa is not just my papa but my soul mate, my best friend, my teacher, my lover. He is everything to me so naturally our lives should be interwined on every level.

 

Of course, as you age, there may be less time for certain things, such as little space, or papa time, but, this is true of any relationship. Together, you need to merely make a continuous effort to develop together and to preserve what is important to you.  DDLG is one of those things for me and I want to be a baby when I'm 90.  And I think it makes being a mother more rewarding. Of course I worry about having to share my papa's love, but, I also know that his love for our children would just be a reflection of his love for me. Besides, as we were discussing yesterday, being a baby and mother would be very rewarding for both parties. I'll be just as excited as my daughter when we go to the Disney store, or when I pick out her clothes, or when she wants to cling to me and hug me all the time in much the same way I cling and hug my papa bear. I'll be right alongside her when she's coloring, or playing with barbies, or wanting those stickers and crayons. I love the thought of that and I love the thought of papa bear taking care of all of us. Or picking up all of our pursies once we run off to go look at the duckies at the pond, etc. 

 

Maybe it helps that I'm going to be a teacher soon. I think being an elementary teacher is the perfect baby job.  More teachers need to be passionate and young at heart and to have genuine fun with their kids! But, in the long run, regardless of career, it's all about what you and your papa want for one another and how hard you are willing to work for those things. Marrying someone doesn't change your dynamic. Some people think it changes your mental formations regarding the relationship and thus allows you to be more lax and lazy but I personally think it's just the opposite. When you are married, you must work even harder, but the reward is getting to spend every day with that person for the rest of your life and to know that you make them as happy as the day you met.  

 

The luxury is that we are littles not children. We may be child- like but we are adults who understand the implications of our actions. Thus, though we may have the passion, loving innocence, and total devotion of a child, we also have the strength, patience, and understanding of an adult and to me, this makes for a great mix in a relationship. 

[Daddyformyprincess]

My baby girl and I have been married for 4 years. We dated for about 3 and within a year became daddy and little girl. I was married before and have 2 grown children with my ex and that marriage would have been considered conventional.

 

Being married to my baby girl is completely natural and unforced. She is the one that has really encouraged me to be the daddy she wants and needs.

 

I'm more dominant than a disciplinarian, but she doesn't go a day without feeling daddy's big hand across her bottom.

 

Comparing my two marriages is like comparing apples and oranges. But I bet you can easily see which one I enjoy more.